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At what age did you have your first crush?

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  • Kkstarzz96
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    I was in kindergarten and his name was Tyler. He was my first guy friend but I was disturbed by my feelings for him so I told him we should stop being friends. He got mad at me and we stopped speaking. I didn't like that I liked someone who was supposed to be my friend, so maybe thats what I meant when I said we should stop being friends because I liked him more than a friend, but we're like 5 years old so we couldn't do anything anyway. Only around 13 did the idea of maybe if I liked someone I could hang out with them after school and hold hands lol

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    • ninaneedshelp
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      smart kid though

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  • hotgirlmagic
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    6 I think

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  • Telekinetic-Potato
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    Third grade I had a crush on this girl, she was not only in the 4th grade but was also the most popular person in the school and I was probably the most unpopular guy. Lol

    But I said fuck it what do I have to lose? So I started trying to spend time around her and we got along. We used to go to the woods in the back and make out or whatever. It felt like a big deal back then.

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  • TommyMountainFigure
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    2 weeks before my 10th birthday. I was on holiday with my Aunt and Uncle in Spain. I met this girl called Deborah. I was smitten with her. She was 13. We spent nearly the whole holiday together and she said she would write to me.

    I wrote to her but she never replied.

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    • ninaneedshelp
      ninaneedshelp
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      oh no

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    • TommyMountainFigure
      TommyMountainFigure
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      I know. That was only 1 of 2 times I had my heart broken though. The other was when my g/f cheated on me with my best friend in a place she knew I would catch them. Thankfully my record since my teens has been a lot better. :))

      Reply
    • TommyMountainFigure
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      +1 y

      Thank you for selecting my answer. What about you? How old where you when you first had a crush?

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    • TommyMountainFigure
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      *Were

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    • ninaneedshelp
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      you're welcome I was 15

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    • TommyMountainFigure
      TommyMountainFigure
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      15 is probably the right age to have your first crush I reckon.. I was WAY to young to cope with it.

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    • ninaneedshelp
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      Maybe

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  • dustybiker
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    Probably the image age or younger. 5 I think. He must have talked about me as his mother had him invite me to his birthday party. He was shy. Same hair as this boy but dark black. It was over by the end of the party. lol Looking back I think he was a bit overwhelmed with everyone having fun.

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  • wheresmrcunnunglis
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    I want to say 2nd grade and my crush looked like a friggin duck as I reflect back on it bwhahaha! I confessed to him during Halloween and he was batman and I was the ghost's bride which was reminiscent of Tim Burtons Corpse's bride costume before that movie even materialized. Ahh sweet nostalgia.

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  • TransAm85
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    Xper 7 Age: 40 , mho 40%
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    I was like 10 and I liked this boy who I played outside with. Remember when kids would play outside? Everyone on the block would get together and play tag, hide and seek, jump rope, etc. One time we were playing "House" and I kissed him! He had one of those ugly 80's mullets tho! ew!

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    • TyLeeAndPink
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      I play outside.

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  • laurieluvsit
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    I was in elementary school and it was for my after school PE teacher. I loved her and wrote about it in this mytake...

    Forbidden Love

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  • oliversamuel
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    About seven. My mom invited her over since I had been talking a lot about her. I had a maroon wall-to-wall carpet in my hallway and my older sister thought that it would be funny to videotape us walking down the carpet and kiss at the end. I did not let her kiss me on the lips I remember since I was very embarrassed that my sister was videotaping 🙃

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  • fridge0
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    I think first or second grade, lol. I got in trouble when my mom found out

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    • ninaneedshelp
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      Uh oh

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  • DermalPunch
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    I think i was about 4 or 5 years old. It was unrequited. I still remember him huffing and putting his head down in annoyance when I tried to tap him and talk to him during circle time. It hurt. Yes, I still remember.

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  • ImDusty
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    Xper 4 Age: 25 , mho 32%
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    Very young. I had my first "kiss" in kindergarten, but I might have had a crush on my older neighbor before that even, I vaguely remember thinking she was pretty.

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    • YoitsEl_Baby
      YoitsEl_Baby
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      same about my first kiss 💀

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  • BadKarma3
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    Xper 3 Age: 22 , mho 68%
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    I think 10 I didn't understand it back then but all I knew I just wanted to play outside with him and be around him lol

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  • Lucy68
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    I was 4 years old, had a crush on this really cute Korean boy while a curly red head boy had a crush on me 😅

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    • TyLeeAndPink
      TyLeeAndPink
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      A lot of Koreans are so cute!

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  • Dinosaursandanime65
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    Does just thinking she’s pretty count or do you have to actually like them?

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    • ninaneedshelp
      ninaneedshelp
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      I’m not sure. Maybe at that age it’s kind of the same thing

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    • Dinosaursandanime65
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      Well in that case, kindergartner

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  • clampfan101
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    In kindergarten I found not only my first crush but my childhood sweetheart. Sadly she passed away…

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    • ninaneedshelp
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      so sorry for your loss

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  • AviatorTom
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    It was in 8th grade, I was 12. Her name was Lisa and she had nothing to do with me.

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  • cookiecrusher
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    Xper 6 Age: 36
    +1 y

    6, in first grade. Got to sit next to her as punishment for the teacher.

    Had to make a mad face so she knows it's a terrible punishment and would choose it again 😅

    Only game i had back then was sticks and stones.

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  • GMANN56
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    Xper 5 Age: 35
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    I have a picture of my first girlfriend from 1st grade where she says she loves me
    written on the back. I had 7 girlfriends just during grade school. Had no idea what to do with them
    til about 6th grade though.

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  • connie9888
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    Xper 3 Age: 17
    +1 y

    I kind of have a crush right now on this boy at school, but I haven’t really talked to him or anything haha

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  • Vampirelover_12
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    Xper 4 Age: 25 , mho 34%
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    I remember being around 6. That was also my first time being rejected.

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  • luminiferous
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    Xper 3 Age: 23 , mho 42%
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    Probably 7 or 8. It was a turkish cute and smart boy.

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  • EmbraceThePain
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    Elementary school, but I’m not sure what age specifically.

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  • TyLeeAndPink
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    Xper 5 Age: 21
    +1 y

    Um I was about 15? I think? I was watching Naruto. At some point, Kakashi was talking and I realized that daaang, I like guys.

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  • Alyssa_11
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    Xper 6 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Like 3 🤣🤣🤣 i reconnected with the guy when I was 16 through Facebook but sadly he just wanted to have sex. Sigh.

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    • cookiecrusher
      cookiecrusher
      +1 y

      Damn, were you in a hurry or something? 🤣

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    • Alyssa_11
      Alyssa_11
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      @cookiecrusher Hurry for what?

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    • cookiecrusher
      cookiecrusher
      +1 y

      In a hurry to date/have a boyfriend etc

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    • Alyssa_11
      Alyssa_11
      +1 y

      @cookiecrusher No I just had a crush on him lol

      Reply
  • OpenClose
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    Yoda Age: 35 , mho 62%
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    350 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Probably about 11. I kinda miss those kind of crushes, too.

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  • PhenomenalQueen
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    Xper 6 Age: 30 , mho 34%
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    Kindergarten, lmao I had a BIG crush on this girl named Megan.

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  • Drumlin2001
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    Not sure. Certainly around 8 or 9. Not sure bout before

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  • TexasRed95
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    Xper 6 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Around 17. I have great booksmarts and learn very quickly. But despite that it seems like the social side of everything is about 10 years behind.

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  • Kyle-Jackson78
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    Xper 5 Age: 21
    +1 y

    well the first time i ever had a "crush" had to be around 13 i think.

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  • AndrésC64
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    I remember liking a girl in kindergarten, her name was Mary.

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  • SurströmmingLover
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    It was when I was 8 to 9 y. o. and her name was Antigone.

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  • Prg11
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    Xper 2 Age: 48
    +1 y

    Pfff, like 1 year old. It never stopped/happens quite easily, but I am selective now since it needs to be for pregnancies

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  • HeartFullOfGlue
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    I realized I had a crush on someone when I was in 5th grade, so around 10yo

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  • SaintZameer0
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    Xper 4 Age: 23
    +1 y

    I was like in 3rd grade lol.
    And and she was a teacher in my school 😂😂😂😂😂😂

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  • OlderAndWiser u
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    Age four.

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    • OlderAndWiser u
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      Kissed her - ON THE LIPS - when I was eight years old!

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    • ninaneedshelp
      ninaneedshelp
      +1 y

      Look at you!!! Little heart breaker weren’t you

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    • OlderAndWiser u
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      +1 y

      Yes, ma’am. I WAS In training at an early age! 😊😊😊

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  • noohair
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    Maybe 10 but it is so long ago, I don't remember well.

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  • dolemite89
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    Yoda Age: 37
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    i was in 3rd grade i think, her name was nikayla she was so pretty and fun 😍

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  • Anonymous
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    I played doctor with the girl next door at 5 but I didn’t actually have a “crush” until around 8

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  • Cubus
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    In kindergarten. Altough it was more like she had a crush on me.

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  • Sonjita
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    I think 4 😅 and he was 5. He was my best friend.

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  • Tiptoetamm
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    Geeze I had to have been 8 or 9

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  • ChrisMaster69
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    About 8 if remember right.

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  • bowenw
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    In kindergarten and got caught smooching.

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  • FunkyMonkee
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    At least 5, if not younger.

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  • Kristenxoxo
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    Xper 7 Age: 23
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    Think I was in fifth grade

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  • Massageman
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    One at about 6, another at about 13.

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  • Nagatoro
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    Xper 5 Age: 24
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    I think in 4th grade when I was 9

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  • Anonymous
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    I think 4 or 5 i was so young

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  • pink-jilly
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    I was 6. His name was Max lol

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  • TrillXHippy
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    However old I was in the 6th grade

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  • scooogy
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    5 years old, the neighbor girl.

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  • imfreeze95
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    I don’t know it hasn’t happened yet

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  • Waldoe
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    9... The Force was Strong

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  • Anonymous
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    7th grade. Girl who sat in front of me in algebra.

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  • eagle1951
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    10 my 4th grade teacher

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  • anniisa97
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    Xper 6 Age: 29 , mho 41%
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    Around 5 or 6.

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    • anniisa97
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      That was the first time a boy stood out to me because of his looks. I remember it quite well lol

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  • Miristheiss
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    Probably 6 or 7

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  • slatyb
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    13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    About 6. She was 17.

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  • metalhead_66
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    Xper 5 Age: 31
    +1 y

    12 or so

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  • exitseven
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    I was 12.

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  • 007kingifrit
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    858 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    oh i can remember having a crush in pre school

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  • UpdateGloomyNights_
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    You mean making love?

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    • ninaneedshelp
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      No.

      .

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  • RebeccaBI2000
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    Yoda Age: 25
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    Probably 8

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