How old were you when you had you first crush?

Question

4pple · Accepted Answer

I'll need to think in detail..
My first "girlfriend" was at age 8, but that was just a normal friendship but with a girl, since at that age i had no idea what a girlfriend really was.
Age 15 I got coerced by friends to be together with a girl in a LDR, I didn't have a crush on her though.
At 17 I felt bad for not returning feelings for a girl who liked me, so i forced myself to like her and eventually did love her.
I think the only time I ever had a legitimate crush was while I was with my (ex) girlfriend this year. I got strong feelings for a girl from a diffrent class in my school so I did everything to avoid her and to stop thinking of her, which was surprisingly difficult. I would say that was my first actual crush, and it really sucked lol

ak667 · Accepted Answer

I think I was 4. I picked flowers for a girl at my kindergarten that I liked a lot and we often held hands going home after school. I'm not sure if that's a proper crush or not since I hadn't been through puberty yet. But I liked the romantic image of a guy with a girl, and in Japan there was no notion of girls having cooties or anything like that to steer us away from such interactions.

Alice2398 · Accepted Answer

I had little boyfriends before in the past who I would just hold hands and play mummy and daddy's with 😂 but when I got to around 7/8 years old I had a massive crush on a boy called max, he was so funny and his mum really liked me and wouldn't stop telling my mum how pretty she thought I was and put she thought it was cute I had a crush on her son. Christmas dinner came along and he had to choose between me or my friend to sit next to and he chose my friend. I don't care now but 8 year old me was pissed as hell, biggest betrayal ever 😂 Kirsten stabbed me in back man and years later were still friends and Max is a total knob head now lol.

Goldenskies6 · Accepted Answer

13. His name was Ray. I always went up to him saying "hi Ray!" 😃 With a huge smile on my face. He always had a confused expression on his face 😐 When I said that. And when we were paired up in class, I always helped him on school/work and give him my answers.

I even prayed ☄ on shooting stars to one day marry him 🙏🏻. But, he joined the football team and some of the bully and popular girls started hanging with him. 😔 I didn't see him the same after that. Even in high school he was still in football and I saw him in the hallways and ignored him and moved on with my life.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I was 6 and I had a crush on a guy I went to school with. At the time I was popular and smart and beautiful and he was the social misfit that everybody hated. He went to my house and I also went to his house.

Logorithim · Answer

I was 13, and had a crush on my sister's 12 year old friend.

AmerRestInit · Answer

Maybe five, I was in kindergarten and the girl in front of me asked me to open a jar of perfume for her, which made me feel super useful and cool (I was five...-ish). I went home and told my mother that I was going to marry her, she laughed and said it didn't work that way because she'd have to want to marry me. I was crushed, and that was that.

LifeEqualsLove · Answer

Omg I love this question because it really made me think. My first crush was at about 12 years old in 7th grade and it was to a boy that was all in our circle of friends. Its so funny because I was recently talking to him and some old feelings came back - which is crazy because we are both 25 ! Haha but as you get older you realize things work out for the best !

blubblubblub · Answer

I was probably 6 or 7 and it was mutual. It was adorable, we'd have this game in school where you'd walk around the room while the music played and as soon as it stopped youd go hug the person nearest to you. We were sneaky and would always walk next to each other and hed throw a fit whenever someone else came near him. Ahhh so cute oml

Anonymous · Answer

I was in 5th grade; she was in 4th. So… 10 years old, I guess. The crush lasted until I left for university. I’m sure it was mutual, but neither one of us ever did anything about it. Just a lot of staring and smiling. I actually regret that I didn’t ever approach her—not because I’m not happy now or because I think we’d still be together or something—but it would have been a good formative experience. It was also an important life lesson; since then, I go after what I want.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

As in, pure puppy love, or as in, lust? I was about 6 or 7 when I first wanted a girlfriend. I was about 11 when I started desiring girls and wanted to make out with one. Would take another 20 years before I got the chance.

asdfgary · Answer

My first real crush was when i was 9 and lasted until i was11 when i finished primary school. It was a popular boy in my class who was always really nice to me and stood up for kids that got bullied. My best friend at the time also liked him 😂

Ron_G · Answer

My first crush was when I was 9. We moved in next door to Robert who was 16. He had a pool in his back yard which I was allowed to swim in as long as someone was there. Every time I saw Robert at the pool I would put my bikini on and go over there.
The best was when I would ask him to put sunscreen on my back. I was in heaven

pras016 · Answer

I was 6!  I still remember. I saw him from the balcony while he was playing cricket... I saw his smile and that's how it happened... I couldn't stop thinking about his smile 😍😍

Franciscofjg · Answer

2nd grade. My heart started beating faster than average. I had no clue why but I was rooted to floor with a stupid face all because this long black haired girl with freckles smiled at me. I'd gaze at her from time to time but never spoke cause I was embarrassed. Four years later Im at this camp and she recognizes me and talks for a bit. But even still I was way too nervous to say much. After that I never saw her. I'll always regret never talking to Sabrina when I had the chance

Wild_tiger · Answer

I don’t remember the age but around 6 years old. He was my neighbor and often played to a fish game on the computer.

Once I wanted to impress him so I brought all my plushes to his house. 😂😭😂

A-kay · Answer

I was something like 5 when I had my first crush annnnnnd it was a cartoon character 😂 and I already had a girlfriend in school.😅

kaewk · Answer

11, he was short and gross I don't know what I saw in him. I saw his instagram a few months ago and almost died from laughter.

ecfresh · Answer

13 years old, Katie was 'perfect'! Still friends with her, she is married with kids living up north.

AnnieBabe · Answer

I think I was 6. It was Zac Efron. He just looked so cute in High School Musical.

animelover14 · Answer

I was about 12 and my crush on this guy was really intense.

bikerboyrva · Answer

My first serious crush was middle school, this girl in my class had the most beautiful brown eyes. Too bad she turned out to be ugly on the inside.

CubsterShura · Answer

14 when I had a small crush. 15 when I had a major crush and I was eventually in crazy love.

0asis · Answer

I think I was 6/7. I had a huge crush on a boy in my first grade class

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

When I was 6, I just transferred to a new school, and I actually had two crushes on two girls at once, not sure which was first...

virginbish · Answer

I believe when I first entered primary... he was a very sweet kid

SarahVanRensburg · Answer

I was 7 and I liked him for 4 years... his name was Cameron.

olivine · Answer

I was 13. We were in the same class. I wonder what he is doing now.

limousin987 · Answer

I was 9yrs. old. and her name was Sandra.  Half a Century later, I live halfway across the world, but... I correspond with her at least once a month!! That reminds me...

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Six :D Sweet little blonde Angela in the next house :D

Mrwonder · Answer

I was pretty young I think like 5 or 6 and my crush was the mom of my brothers friend yeah it’s weird I was little don’t judge me 😂

rose004b · Answer

4-5 years old. It still baffles me that it's possible to have crushes at that age.

hammeronfire · Answer

8. this also has to do with my most embarrassing story ever but im nothing to share that right now. maybe later

Marharaya · Answer

I had my first crush on a real life girl at 17... but i had a crush on Emma Peel since the age of 6

MeatPuppet · Answer

Around 12. I've had a crush on her for three years.

beechman2129 · Answer

I was in HS and I was crushing on this girl in my class. Think i was 17.

njadhao57 · Answer

16. I guess, I was a little late, but couldn't help it. I studied in all boys school, and obviously, I couldn't say anything to her😢

devilguy · Answer

I was 8. I dont know it is crush or not. But i tried many things just to speak to her. I had sure crush when i was 15. 😊

hornyinspokane · Answer

i was 14 years old then n the big breasted girls had my attention then n still do

Anonymous · Answer

I was six I like a boy named tommy he looked just like harry potter

Keyboardkat · Answer

I was ten years old in fifth grade.

Bizzaro_Elmo · Answer

5 or 6. Her name was Nikki.

ghostqueen · Answer

Five

Oasha · Answer

16 or 17, I can't remember too well.

NonceySketzer · Answer

Bish, I was today years old

marilynmansonssextoy · Answer

11 xx  ~ Mrs Manson

ZeussLightningBolt · Answer

I was in preschool. LOL

jacquesvol · Answer

Fourteen and it was a HUGE crush.

Bootylicious905 · Answer

12 with my grade 6 class mate.

DakotaNorth · Answer

I was 2. I know I didn't have the words for it.

ValeriusDover · Answer

I've never had a crush on anyone before, actually.

bellatrix_honor · Answer

First proper crush? Probably 12

Gottime · Answer

Way too young. Probably 5

Skali9119Liska · Answer

I don’t even remember

xxchanges · Answer

I would say around 6.

shanks_in · Answer

Probably 11 or 12 years...

stain09 · Answer

18 when I was at work

lnghrn_fan88 · Answer

Like 7 or 8... I can't remember exactly

posersober · Answer

4 as i remember... Her name was Lucy

deeders · Answer

14, everything before wasn't real at all

dontgofalling · Answer

Wow my first crush... I think when I was 9

clueless-af-girl · Answer

10 years

Eva323 · Answer

I was 18.

jazmiine · Answer

9 y/o

How old were you when you had you first crush?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

How old were you when you had your first crush?

How old were you when you had you first crush?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

How old were you when you had your first crush?

We're glad to see you liked this post.