Why is my male neighbor copying me?

[Anonymous]

First he is 41 and im 37, second I wore a royal blue shirt the other day with sweats that had a stripe down the side he wore the exact same thing the same day. Third I burned my garbage and he came out and started burning his, he stares at me and smiles a lot showing his teeth but barely talks to me, I'm just trying to figure him out. Also he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend but neither of us are married 😔 the list could go on but you get the idea does he maybe gave a crush on me or whats his deal 🤔

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You can pick the house but you can’t pick your neighbors & as for your neighbor at first you probably thought it was a coincidence but when your neighbor started mirroring your every move I’m sure you started thinking. On the other hand I say let the games begin. Wash your car, have a barbecue & wear a Halloween costume & see if the joker copies you & if he does something is up.

[Asker]

I've been on this house 33 of 36 years its my childhood home he just moved here a little over a year ago and has been acting like this since our first conversation as new neighbors

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Him & his girlfriend are new to the neighborhood so I say get to know them & welcome them to the neighborhood.

[Vikkrram]

I think you both are having feelings for each other and it's impossible to hide it so somehow you both have conveyed ur feelings to each others but the problem is who's gonna break the ice?

[Asker]

Maybe we have but its to late to break the ice were both already in relationships

[Vikkrram]

It's never too late it's better to be wid someone whom you like and here you both have feelings.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

He might have a crush on you. It is said that when someone is attracted to you, they will mirror you (copy you). So, that might be the case, or maybe he’s hoping that those efforts of copying you could strike up a conversation?


Either way, it’s a bit odd if he has a girlfriend, and you have a boyfriend.

[Asker]

Yeah but maybe he likes me more than the girlfriend 🤔

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Maybe, that wouldn’t necessarily be a good thing.

[Asker]

I agree I like him too a little but not enough to hurt the people we are already with I just don't know what to do or say

[JanJan3838]

Make sure those clothes you wore aren’t missing

[spartan55]

Why do you need to 'figure him out' WHEN YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND. I swear, no shame at all.

[Iron_Man]

Trying to get on the same level as you and meet you

[Asker]

But he has been my neighbor for over a year now so he kinda knows me, he has talked to me but it has not been long conversations.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe it turned into a crush now go for it

[In_Trance]

Have you talked to him about any of this?

[Asker]

No! Because like I said he already had a girlfriend and I dont want to make things awkward

[Asker]

Has* a girlfriend