Why are a lot of women so narcissistic on dating apps?

[Anonymous]

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I feel like it speaks for itself, but if you need examples: average ones act like they're way way above average for one, 2 they treat men as they're below them, that they're just some annoying pest, which yeah, a lot of them are I'm sure but don't lump up all together like I don't lump all of them together, and their first pics are bikini pics of showing off their asses, in the middle of winter even

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they never say anything when the ones I usually like are the ones who liked me first, if I do like them first however and they like me back, still, nothing, what do you want us to say well give you a million dollars or something? And lastly the whole "you have to earn me" bs. You're a human being, no better than anyone else.

[Lionman95]

Because the whole concept of dating apps works like that. Everybody on a dating app is portraying oneself narcisstic because everybody hopes to find love there. Nobody wants to be ignored on there so people become needy after some time especially when it seems that they aren´t successful for some time.

[Anonymous]

Same reason why so many women on here are narcissistic. A blue asks a question he gets about 1 to 3 pink responses. A pink asks a question she gets about 30 blue responses. Half of them shamelessly sucking up to her telling her whatever they think will Curry favor with her.
If this happened to you on a daily bases with women. Just trying to f*** you you'd get full of yourself to.
I don't even use dating websites anymore for anything other than entertainment value.

[Asker]

I mostly agree, but I definitely wouldn't get full of myself

[peace1591]

I can't say about everyone but when I entered the online and dating world, I got hurt many times and met many people who tried to hurt me, eventually after meeting so many people. I automatically became someone who don't trust anyone by myself. Who don't obsess over anyone except myself. And I believe that at last it's just you with you and everyone just leave one day, so why not?

[Asker]

But not everyone's the same

[peace1591]

No one have time and patience to go through everyone in this world and find the one for them. With my own experience I may act all rude and strict but once I like someone and I've the trust, I'm a whole different person

[desidoll]

Because there are many simps over there who will say whatever shit to get laid. Another issue with most of the guys I know is, they target some highly attractive women who are desired by other men hence making the competition tougher.

[Asker]

I target my attraction level or similar interests, sometimes below my attraction level and still it's like they feel they are 10\10 when they are average at best

[desidoll]

Yea, I can understand that because there are some attractive men who will sleep with unattractive women. I have two friends on dating sites, both are overweight and they had like some gym looking dudes hooking up with them lol.

[Asker]

Sounds about right lol

[TrueConfection]

My guess would be that they joined the dating app for their own interests and not for anyone else's.

[Asker]

That's sad that they waste a bunch of other people's time that are actually serious

[genericname85]

well you'd become narcissistic, if girls tried to get in your pants on those site every day. it makes one overestimate ones value. it's not the girls fault in my opinion. it's the fault of desparate horny guys that have no dignity and no class.

[Asker]

But they completely overlook the guys who aren't doing that though, but I definitely notice when a girl is not like that on there though, but so rare

[genericname85]

believe it or not, at some point after100 dick picks and fuck requests, they stop reading every single message. so that's why "regular" messages just go under.

[Asker]

So why even be on there in the first place then?

[genericname85]

well girls don't stay on there for long. they make an account. check it out for a few weeks. realize it's trash and then leave. that's part of the reason why women rarely reply. lots of dead accounts.

[Asker]

Makes sense then

[KrakenAttackin]

Because "likes" on social media have become the new validation. Women, by nature, are bottomless pits for attention and social media has amplified this.

[UniquelyBasic]

Maybe because women get way more attention on dating apps and that pads their ego

[FýrdracaDócincel]

They're not narcissistic.

Just that a "no standards are unreasonable" attitude is considered acceptable from women today and less so from men. So by comparison it appears narcissistic.

[Asker]

They're definitely narcissistic tho

[FýrdracaDócincel]

I just said they're not.

[Asker]

They fit the exact definition of narcissistic

[FýrdracaDócincel]

They fit the definition of someone who doesn't settle.

If that's a narcissist to you then you need to rethink your shit.

[Asker]

Someone who doesn't settle when plenty meet their criteria is someone who's full of themselves and narcissistic, and they have no empathy towards anyone either again fitting the description of narcism

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Plenty don't meet their criteria

[Little_Bumblebee]

When asking these questions, please explain, elaborate and possible come with examples

[Asker]

I feel like it speaks for itself, but if you need examples: average ones act like they're way way above average for one, 2 they treat men as they're below them, that they're just some annoying pest, which yeah, a lot of them are I'm sure but don't lump up all together like I don't lump all of them together, and their first pics are bikini pics of showing off their asses, in the middle of winter even, they never say anything when the ones I usually like are the ones who liked me first, if I do like them first however and they like me back, still, nothing, what do you want us to say well give you a million dollars or something? And lastly the whole "you have to earn me" bs. You're a human being, no better than anyone else.

[Aurora1010]

Because even the average ones get lots of likes even from hot guys

[Aurora1010]

Average girls do better than hot guys on dating apps so yeah many girls know they can be picky and all the attention can be like an ego boost.

[Twalli]

You have to realize that they are on the app and single for a reason.

[Avicenna]

Anyone who gets lots of attention on them is going to become narcissistic if they aren't already

[rabbitzzz]

Because men of dating apps are altruistic saints. Its like ying yang.

[Asker]

Are they though

[Anonymous]

i'll let you in on a secret. it's because they're there for the compliments, not to date. duh.

[Asker]

So then that clearly points that they're narcissists then

[spiralshape]

I know right like height, wtf do they not know that MLK, Brad Pitt and Justin Bieber were/are all 5'9 or under?

[moonmakerr20]

Playing hard to get or to get attention from simps and horny dudes

[Waldoe]

they are narcissistic EVERYWHERE

[Anonymous]

Guys can be the same way.

[Asker]

Yeah but this isn't about them and not nearly as many are