We are together now.
but basically we dated and she thought I was cheating her on because I didn’t block my ex on everything because we were still kind of friends but really nothing I cared about, so she got suspicious because of that, but I proved to her I was being honest and blocked my ex on everything because I really don’t care about her. So when my girlfriend and I got back together she told me she talked to her ex but just said she wanted her paintings back and to spite me for getting tinder during the time we broke up because she said a bunch of stuff like she had no feeling and didn’t want me ( but I know she said that because she thought I was gonna hurt her and because she’s been around cheating a lot recently she just freaked out and I completely understand that). So she told me about her ex and because I’ve been cheated on before for 3 years it just really hurt and I got ptsd and got angry. So it’s kind of bad patch but I don't know if it’s worth giving up or just leaving her
Like it’s not so much we don’t trust each other we’ve just been hurt really bad by our parents and people who claim they love us, just for us to get our heart broken and I know how much she likes me and how much I mean to her, it’s just she knew it was wrong but clearly wasn’t expecting my reaction and she at least thought I’d respect her honesty and I do.
She also brought up that you still talked to your ex even she she hurt you and that’s true but I stopped talking her as soon as we started talking and I hadn’t really had a conversation in about a month or so.
I don’t know what to do and it hurts because we care for eachother and I genuinely don’t think she’d cheat, I’m just not sure i could handle the anxiety and she’s the type of girl who blocks anyone who makes advances on her and she does hate her ex I know that.
It’s just like I’ve been hurt and I can’t handle that again.
but basically we dated and she thought I was cheating her on because I didn’t block my ex on everything because we were still kind of friends but really nothing I cared about, so she got suspicious because of that, but I proved to her I was being honest and blocked my ex on everything because I really don’t care about her. So when my girlfriend and I got back together she told me she talked to her ex but just said she wanted her paintings back and to spite me for getting tinder during the time we broke up because she said a bunch of stuff like she had no feeling and didn’t want me ( but I know she said that because she thought I was gonna hurt her and because she’s been around cheating a lot recently she just freaked out and I completely understand that). So she told me about her ex and because I’ve been cheated on before for 3 years it just really hurt and I got ptsd and got angry. So it’s kind of bad patch but I don't know if it’s worth giving up or just leaving her
Like it’s not so much we don’t trust each other we’ve just been hurt really bad by our parents and people who claim they love us, just for us to get our heart broken and I know how much she likes me and how much I mean to her, it’s just she knew it was wrong but clearly wasn’t expecting my reaction and she at least thought I’d respect her honesty and I do.
She also brought up that you still talked to your ex even she she hurt you and that’s true but I stopped talking her as soon as we started talking and I hadn’t really had a conversation in about a month or so.
I don’t know what to do and it hurts because we care for eachother and I genuinely don’t think she’d cheat, I’m just not sure i could handle the anxiety and she’s the type of girl who blocks anyone who makes advances on her and she does hate her ex I know that.
It’s just like I’ve been hurt and I can’t handle that again.
