My ex texted me a day after he broke up with me like nothing happened?

[GreenEyesBrownHair]

A day after he told me he doesn't want to hurt me and it's better off if we'll end this, he texted me, like old pictures on Facebook, told me how his nephew misses me and sent a video of his niece telling me she misses me and to come over. I asked him why didn't he tell his family we broke up. He said "I don't know, I just told them we had a fight".

[Smoke-n-Growls]

STICK TO YOUR GUNS.

He's trying to lure you back and he's such a fuckin coward he couldn't even tell his family you'd broken up with him.

He is ONLY going to get worse with you. He's desperately trying to avoid his own grieving process by denying you'd ever broke up.

Stick to your guns. Go no contact. If he keeps reaching out and lying to his family, tell his parents the truth about you two (do so gently, it's hard for parents to see their child suffer like it's clear your ex is and they will likely take his side - make sure you stay safe).

You broke up with him for a reason. Stick to it.

[GreenEyesBrownHair]

He's the one that broke up with me..

[SphynxUK]

He’s changed his mind.
And to be honest, it’s out of order. And using kids to guilt you into staying isn’t on either.
He had his chance then ended it.

[Anonymous]

Why did he break up with you? What does he mean by he doesn't want to hurt you?

[GreenEyesBrownHair]

He said I'm a very good girl and I deserve better. I had a mini trust issues which he takes responsibility for them. I'm 28 year old virgin and as much as he respect that, he's afraid that he's gonna hurt me if we'll sleep together and the relationship won't succeed. I did some mistakes too.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like he still loves you but is scared of the commitment. You guys just need to talk about what you want and take it slow to build trust again.

[Guy13]

Communication is Key 🔑 🔐 to Contentment

[Nahid1707]

Bad drama and you should move on