Girls, how many dates does it take before you feel comfortable sleeping with someone typically?

[NHdoc]

girls on average how many dates do you go on with someone before you feel comfortable sleeping with them.

This is assuming of course you like them

I've always heard the 3rd as some kind of magic number

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Uhhh, I might be different… Because I want to wait months, or at least until I feel a strong emotional connection, and knowing that we are committed before I even consider doing anything sexual.


I don’t put out easy. I don’t even know the guy for 3 dates, so how am I supposed to really trust him? Let alone, trust him with my body? How do I know he’s clean of STDs, how do I know he won’t just pump and dump? It’s not something I’d be willing to do, and if they can’t respect that, they can move on.


It took around 6 months-ish for me to decide to have sex with my current boyfriend. Having trust in him in general, and being able to open up emotionally, really made me trust that he wouldn’t hurt me or leave me right after🤷🏻‍♀️

[Gwenhwyfar]

At least a month. But sometimes we do other stuff first (boob stuff, hand stuff, oral)