Is my boyfriend and I's age gap odd?

Question

He's 38, and I'm 19.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes. Good luck with that and hope you enjoy it when he’s sick enough that you need to care for him or dead before you even retire. If you even make it to that point before you ”age out” and he swaps you for someone younger. Men like that aren’t normal. No men I know would date someone that luvh younger. I’ve even overheard a male family member and his male friends trash talk men like that and csay how they’re like paedophiles. My own brother has only ever dated girls 1-3 years older, except for 1 of them who was actually the same age. He’s rejected girls younger than him (he has no problem attracting girls) and thinks our cousin is disgusting and trashy for dating a girl 11 years younger.

GenaBaby1995 · Accepted Answer

I did that and you're both in it for all the wrong reasons, you'll learn the hard way like me!

bowenw · Accepted Answer

It's a wide gap that could have challenges. For example when you are 50 he'll be 69.

ChiTown33 · Accepted Answer

Yeah. But if it works for you two that's all that matters.

sexy_julia · Answer

There is nothing wrong with an age gap if both partners are adults. I was 19 when I married my husband, he was 54. We are very much in love and happy together, married for 13 years and have six kids.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Do YOU think it's odd? Do you love, trust, and respect each other? Do you communicate well, freely, and openly? Are you compatible? If the two of you can truthfully answer "yes" to all these questions, that is all that should be important to you.

Raphaëlle · Answer

It's an age gap alright but as long as you love each other and are happy together it shouldn't matter.

ItsMaddy · Answer

i mean he's almost 40 and you're still a teen so yes it is kind of odd BUT it's your choice, and if you love and trust each other then continue the relationship

tponderingundead · Answer

in my honest opinion, kinda. but to be fair, i've seen chicks about your age with MUCH older guys. anyways, you're considered legal so it's not really our business.

True_Sage · Answer

It's not odd. You're a common prostitute following classic Evo psych programming looking for your sugar daddy. It's natural.

Anonymous · Answer

It's fine. You are the right age for marriage and kids.

Rizwan_khan · Answer

It's not odd but long age gap. But if you love him then it's okh

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Your in two different places in life long term don't see it working

Anonymous · Answer

Girl, i’m all for age gap relationship. I’m in one (23&33). My advice is just be careful as you’re still 19, no offense, it’s your life.. But be at least 21?

JesseJayNeak · Answer

He’s double your age. But hey! You love who you love

fireforeffect · Answer

I have been there and almost married her. It is best that we didn't.

Avicenna · Answer

Unusual, but not unheard of

scott04sa22 · Answer

If he makes you happy I can’t see the problem

Wise4myage · Answer

That's really pushing the age gap in my opinion.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

I think it's different mentality, different goals

clemdenim · Answer

Never worry about age

Anonymous · Answer

very odd wtf are you doing?

crmoore · Answer

Not nowadays

TrillXHippy · Answer

Yeah

In_Trance · Answer

no it isn't

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