Is smoking weed a turn off?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I really don't get why people live a fairy tale life thinking booze, partying, money, and drugs solves the issue. I'm not perfect by any means but to see these people wearing the cross + around their neck representing Jesus. Jesus, never represented those values. It is a turn off for me personally. I understand weed can be used as a medical purpose. But that's only under doctor's orders where it can actually help the person. Anything that is too much can cause harm. I want to get married and if I have kids, I don't want them growing up thinking its okay to do drugs, party and drink.

I feel like parents don't do a good job raising their kids, kids get older, get influenced by bad friends and then go down a bad path. If I had to give advice to my kids I would say by the time you are in 7th grade and even up to university/college undergrad, people will pressure you do these things but they aren't your real friends so stay away from those people. People act fake and don't care if you suffer in misery with them or even worse. I don't trust people nowadays.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

OMG , massive massive turn off , just as it should be , hydroponically grown dope is not something that should be just " acceptable " , its a dangerous dangerous product , well overly acceptable by too many.
Its a stepping stone to other drugs , and its far from harmless , and if you somehow think.. This guy wouldn't know? He doesn't understand , and understand I know all too well , and spent 3 full years , many years ago seeing what this does to people.

Cigarettes' are no acceptable , everyone now agrees , don't make excuses to use this sht , its never good.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Accepted Answer

If you asked me 4 years ago, I would have said no and I would have been willing to date someone who smoked, as I was also a smoker (weed/nicotine).

As of now, yes, it is a turn off. I changed my life around, I stopped smoking weed and nicotine, and I stopped hanging around people who did that stuff. I find it undesirable now. I don’t want someone who does it, because I have seen the ins and outs of all of it. It is unattractive and I would not be compatible with them at all.

Squaresquirrel · Accepted Answer

Not if he shares 🤣

MCheetah · Answer

Yes. To me, that's a dealbreaker and the trait of someone who is (probably, but possibly might not be) a loser. Only if you're Rob Van Dam or some other athlete, do I give you a pass to smoke the loser grass. I'm not sorry for that either; drugs, alcohol, and self-destruction should not be celebrated in a healthy functioning society. Smoking in general is a turn-off, but weed is just SUCH a sign of a loser, to me. Maybe I'm biased due to where I grew up, but I've still never seen any successful people worth admiring with such disgusting, pathetic habits like being a drug user. The same way I've never seen any inspirational alcoholics.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

I find weed smokers who smoke every day over years immature. I have a friend from study time who smokes 3-5 gram hashish ever day. He is good companion for party or hanging around but I wouldn't give him a serious task to do or even expect some punctuality. He is still the guy as he was with 21, has rich parents, travels around the world, brings often some girls from abroad who don't speak any language I know. After few months as their tourist visa is over sends them back home. Zero responsibility, he is very cunning but this isn't the type of cunning like smart people are.

CubsterShura · Answer

I'm with someone who smokes weed and I'll be honest that's not my most favorite part about him but it doesn't make me dislike him as a person especially because in college it's way too common. I did set the hard limit that he cannot smoke around me or be around me when he is high. We've been maintaining that boundary pretty well. I once talked to him on phone when he was high and that was enough lmao. Kinda goofy and hilarious but still scared me a bit 😂😂😂

Novacane · Answer

I would say it is a turn off as we may know who doesn’t smoke nowadays. I think it is a turn off when that is all they do. When they are posting about it daily, they always have to be high, smoke first thing in the morning because just like everything else there is a limit of when it’s too much.

muscularbumblebee · Answer

I’m pretty neutral about it tbh. Only because a lot of the people I do know who smoke it do it just to relax occasionally and aren’t a fan of smoking, drinking or partying that usually comes with it. Do I do it myself? Hell no I hate the smell almost as much as Tabacco. But can I live with someone who does it? Sure. I’d rTher they didn’t but as long as they aren’t big on the lazy or other stereotypical lifestyle that comes with and obv no other hard drugs I guess I’m cool with it…

Dburns1268 · Answer

I'm really shocked at these answers. I felt we were finally becoming a nation that accepted weed and it's medicinal properties. I smoke Indica for my multiple sclerosis and on my REALLY bad days it can help. I would be turned off if they didn't share!!

Realistic07 · Answer

It’s not a turn off, but it’s also not a turn on.

In my mind when people smoke weed they’re doing it for themselves. The activity of smoking weed might be communal but the actual smoking of weed is for ones self.

In my book it doesn’t really dictate anything that can really determine the personality of another human being. For me if I’m going out with someone a good personality is really what im looking for. Whether they smoke weed or not doesn’t really affect that.

howhigh420 · Answer

i smoke it a tiny bit but only once or twice in a few months its not a thing in my life also iam ok with men doing it but to much of it is bad a guy i went with a long time smoked to much and sometimes kissing him was discusting or if he breathed with his mouth open facing him it was discusting but mistly he brushes his teeth sometimes its still there a bit no one wants to kiss a stoner guy i did but the taste is horrible

Anonymous · Answer

100%
Smoking weed, vaping, smoking cigarettes.
TURN OFF!

I cannot stand when some idiot is there spreading their disgusting breath for everyone to see. Specially when their DISGUSTING BREATH touches me!

Those type people need to be sent to another island separate from society.
Scratch that? ANOTHER PLANET !

Moose304 · Answer

Smoking ANYTHING is a NOPE! Listen I don't even hang around people who smoke ANYTHING! I don't allow it in my vehicle, in my home, or around me on a job site! If I am sitting at a table in a bar and someone who has just finished a smoke sits down ONE of us is leaving!

HD1450 · Answer

No, it is not because in my country people have the right to choose what they want to do in life it is their God given right as long as they are not hurting someone. I have friends that I went to High School with that are still smoking pot and that was 40 years ago and that is there right. That is one of the reasons I joined the service to protect those rights and I took an oath to defend those rights and that oath I took NEVER EXPIRES...

Shamalien · Answer

Not at all, weed is the best drug, better than coffee or any pill people are prescribed. I despise people who look down on marijuana while taking many drugs they don’t even consider to be drugs. Marijuana is as safe as it gets. All I’ll say is that if you’re already unmotivated and lazy it’s not for you. It’s for high energy people who need balance

laurieluvsit · Answer

I won't/don't do it, but I have girlfriends that do and like it. To each their own. I get high off of other things :)

Gigi2019 · Answer

Weed stinks and I will always hold a negative regard for anyone smoking it. I don't care if it does get legalized.

HawkPerception · Answer

I don't really look down on people for doing weed, but if my partner was into a drug, I'd just personally prefer they were into the same stuff as me. I only like alcohol, so I'd prefer my partner also drinks.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Yep, I don’t really like men to smoke weed and I am happy my boyfriend doesn’t have bad habits like this.  However, I’ve smoked weed a couple of times in the past along with my brother.

HighlyVolatile · Answer

I don't really mind since I want to join, but I separate a stoner who revolves their life around weed vs. someone who has a bit more going for their lives.

Cherry234 · Answer

Yes. Smoking of any kind is a huge turn off to me. I don't want a man that smokes. I haven't smoked a cigarette in my life.

Wade12345 · Answer

i wouldn't date anyone who did drugs or drank alcohol or smoked cigarettes.  Too much science showing how it's bad for both the person doing it and everyone around them.

annabananna · Answer

It is a turn off for me. It smells bad and most people I know that smoke week are way too obsessed over it. For something that’s supposedly not addictive there’s a ring who can’t seem to go a few days without it.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Nope. It's better than alcohol, along with probably shows your a laidback person and by far their the best people. Then way better than normal cigs.  So if anything a turn on.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

No but as someone that had a weed smoking habit, I would aim for someone that doesn't smoke because weed can make you stupid and slow

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Any smoking is disgusting so yes. Doing drugs (unless using marijuana in a controlled medicinal manner) is also not ok. Getting high is what losers do.

Switch91 · Answer

Not a fan.  It smells disgusting and pretty much everyone I know who smokes it can't function without it.

TrueConfection · Answer

Yes. I would file divorce papers if my husband started using drugs.

Mango-man · Answer

For me, any kind of smoking is non-negotiable NO as I feel quite repulsed by it.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I'm not a user personally, would maybe give a try (if kids were staying elsewhere overnight) A very occasional usage wouldn't be an issue. A frequent usage would be.

wheresmrcunnunglis · Answer

not at all and would probably prefer it so that once we get comfortable and trust each other enough we could do it together on occasion.

Levin · Answer

Definitely, yeah. Has certain connotations for a reason. Of people neglecting certain parts of their lives who are taking it.

jestergent · Answer

I think smoking 'whatever' is a turn off to those who don't do it themselves, otherwise it might be a turn on having something in common? I think that might best suit many situations?

maverick2022 · Answer

I will take a girl that smokes weed over one that drinks alcohol on any day of the year.

Isismoonie · Answer

It’s a turn on for me sorry lol. If he doesn’t like to smoke I might not like him.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Nope I use cannabis for pain relief I eat it use it as topical and also smoke but I don't smoke much it's less helpful for pain in that form

CasaNorba · Answer

super turn on! plus I get viagra quality erections when I smoke

Alyssa_11 · Answer

I had an ex who smoked weed. He was meeeeeeesssssyyyyy.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope, long as you don't make my house smell like it.

mb120101 · Answer

I hate the weed social stigma. Guys don’t smoke weed and beat their wives but alcoholics do

SmokyOne · Answer

It is and it isn't. In don't mind the getting high part of it but I hate the smell and am allergic to it mildly. Edibles and dabs are alright though

Aurora1010 · Answer

No but it's not sexy or anything either like some people think, that's just a corny thought.

Sour-rose · Answer

that means i can smoke my incense.. also it's my weed alternative <3

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Prefer them not to, however dated girls that smoked it before.

Tedster420 · Answer

No but it's a great way to make the Tedster green out and puke.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

That alone, not really. But it's the addiction that makes it a turn off. Weeds are supposed to be medicinal and they help with inflammation and stiff muscles. Abusing it is just not good

gabby100 · Answer

I dont like the smell , and the people who use it come across as losers..

bolverk · Answer

Smoking Weed, Tobacco or Vaping are all turn off's.

Nigjt · Answer

I must apologize because I minte to hit the no button because smokeing weed is very sexy to me if a Woman is to smoke an yes I do also. God Bless

Nagatoro · Answer

Yes. There is nothing even remotely attractive about someone doing drugs.

zagor · Answer

Daily? Or a couple times a month? Makes a difference.

Guido · Answer

I don't date smokers and definitely not anybody that has anything to do with drugs of any type.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah kinda. I don't like talking to people who are all dopey who can't hold a conversation with me.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't want junkies, alcoholics and sexual deviants 😗

MrTaboo · Answer

THC stays in the brain, it really makes you dumber.

Curiousnesshmmm · Answer

Yes because people just act stupid when there high on weed and stupidity is not attractive

Slim57 · Answer

Only if it's excessive and they can't stay out of trouble or hold down a job

Anonymous · Answer

Smoking anything is a turn off but brownies are good

cth2188 · Answer

I won’t date anyone who smokes weed or does drugs

Losalt · Answer

Yes, but not a deal breaker.

Brittanyroseee · Answer

No. I smoke everyday lol

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Yeah, just like smoking in general and drinking.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, smoking cigarettes is much worse.

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