Attraction to a good looking guy?

[kay2003]

Have you ever been attracted to someone you don’t know and slept with them?

[HighlyVolatile]

I spent a lot of time clubbing in my youth so I sorta did. But the women I clicked with felt like -- at least in the process of dancing and talking over loud music -- and talking more quietly when we made our way back to my place -- like we knew each other longer than we did. It was typically foolish in hindsight. We never turned out to be so compatible in the end, although I never kept it as a one-night stand. I made them breakfast and dated them after the night with the hope and prospect of becoming an item.

[HighlyVolatile]

I also did this always between serious relationships with women I met outside of such establishments. But then, after breakups I'd get really lonely and kind of depressed returning to a bed by myself in my apartment. So the nightclub became an easy place to just sort of dance and drink and I wasn't trying to pick up girls at those places. But I sometimes did just dancing and talking to everyone around me.

[HighlyVolatile]

And what I was craving wasn't sex. I have a hand, lube, and tissue. I can get that out of my system. I was mostly craving intimacy and someone to join me when I returned home.

[virtue2332]

Yeah of course but that being said I was as safe as I could be and to be honest it was never as good as I built up in my head. Almost always a let down.

[PrettyPriya]

No. I have to have an emotional connection to someone before even considering intimacy with that person. I don't do one night stands or hookups. Never have.

The only people I have ever been involved with sexual have been longterm partners. It took varying degrees of time to get to that point where I felt comfortable engaging in intimacy with them.

I don't just give my body to someone I don't have an emotional investment in.

[PrettyPriya]

@kay2003 Thank you kindly for the MHO! 😊

[Bluemax]

I have been physically attracted to women I don't know. I have never slept with someone I didn't know.

[B4852]

I've certainly felt the attraction to a attractive woman I didn't know, but didn't sleep with her.

[Jltakk]

Never lucky enough to get that far

[Anonymous]

No.
I have dignity and self respect

[Avicenna]

Nope

[In_Trance]

Never

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

No, but I wish.