I'm usually content being single but after my friends have started to wonder why I'm single at 29 I'm starting to feel desperate now why?

[Anonymous]

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Because you were never actually content being single. You decided to be content one day which nobody told you at the time is impossible. You probably thought it was the healthy thing to do but what's required to do something like that is to disassociate that part of yourself from your thoughts.

I know this is hard to hear but you can find someone. Do you know what you want in a man?

[Asker]

I know a girl who found someone at 29 and now has kids at 33 so it's possible... sadly the guy cheats on her tho

[Telekinetic-Potato]

In my opinion, you shouldn't look for love. You need to look for loyalty. Find a real man: someone with mental discipline and conviction. A guy who has some purpose or at least t is looking for it. This is what's required for consistency which is required for loyalty.

[Asker]

You are right because lately I hear so many cheating stories it's crazy. I know this girl who's guy cheats on her asking girls to get hotels with him

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It's men and women too. That's why dating is important. Date a lot

[Asker]

The guy is engaged set to be married and they have a kid

[Asker]

Early they moved too fast or she did

[TheMajesticKing777]

Because you let people's judgement get to you, when people ask me or judge me for being single or even petty shit like virginity I tell them I'm chasing the money, in reality I just haven't run into the right person yet but they don't gotta know that lol

[whirled_up_girl]

I've been there but after having a few not great relaships I realized I'd rather be single than be miserable with someone.

[Chris_Chapman00987]

I guess it could be peer pressure.
I'm divorced and happy most days, but my friends act like I need to be set up. They feel bad, but I'm not even looking for anyone right now. They don't understand that you don't constantly need to be in a relationship to be happy.

[Anonymous]

Don't be depressed think about all of the positive things you have going for you. Listen if all of your other friends told you to jump off a bridge would you?

[Asker]

Exactly I've achieved a lot I focused on my degree, lived in Canada for 2 years after graduation, getting my own apartment soon and starting my new job always new opportunities to get a guy when I move there

[HighValue]

Biologically, if you do want healthy kids, I would suggest making finding a good match/SO your priority at this point before it is too late to get a good mate anymore that wants kids.

[Asker]

I know a girl who found someone at 29 and now has kids at 33 so it's possible... sadly the guy cheats on her tho

[OneNineZero]

You are worried not coz of yourself but coz of your friends, you are trying to be normal in their view that's the problem

[KrakenAttackin]

You should feel the pressure. The wall is fast approaching and the clock is ticking. You will end up as a buzzer beater, just marrying some Simp (and hating him).

[OddBeMe]

Because they’re criticizing you. It’s society’s expectations they’ve bowed to. You’re going your own way.

[Asker]

I know a girl who found someone at 29 and now has kids at 33 so it's possible... sadly the guy cheats on her tho

[OddBeMe]

That’s not the norm either. The guy cheating. Honestly she prob chose a cheater for weird psychological reasons.

[Asker]

How does she put up with it she must see he follows every girl in the area and he actually chatted me up and asked for dirty pictures

[OddBeMe]

I’ve read about the psychology of abusive relationships. And while he’s only cheating, it’s similar. Wives have a dependency on their abusive partners, strangely. They feel they need them even if they hate the abuse and cheating. It’s almost a reciprocal meekness.

[Asker]

I wonder I she knows about it? It's strange tho because ut seems like she had done more in life than him as she travelled and degree where he just stayed in the same home town since highschool that I know dho did rubbish in highschool barley any good grades

[OddBeMe]

id be surprised if she didn't know. Maybe she just doesn't openly recognize it.

[Anonymous]

Because you’re letting the opinion of your friends bother you.

[Zygum]

So, you are convinced by your friends, it is good, enjoy your youth

[Sam_The_Savage]

Text me in private. .

[Nahid1707]

You want Love is the reason

[driven159]

Never feel desperate be choosey

[NamerOfStars]

FOMO and loneliness.

[flirtatiousgirl]

Don't care them