I expressed my interest of getting married soon with someone with my parents. They denied it. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

They are saying that I shouldn't get married and not providing any reason for why they are declining. They said that I don't deserve to get married and I need to remove the thought of getting married completely. Why they are doing like this? What can I do?

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Although many guys expressed their interest in marrying me. I want to get settled down with someone in those soon. But my parents are against the word of marriage and they don't want me to

[Raphaëlle]

Are they against the idea of getting married or who you're going to marry?

[PhotonicElectrons]

Are you an adult? if yes you do as you please.

[CorbetRig]

Ask them the reason

[Asker]

They say that I don't deserve to marry

[CorbetRig]

That's not a reason. What's the reason for saying you don't deserve?

[Asker]

That I am a difficult child

[CorbetRig]

I think you need to find a job and stay on your own legs.

[Asker]

They don't want me to do job even

[Asker]

I understood that they want to keep me all to themselves and don't want to share me with anyone else. They want me to sacrifice my choices to be with them all my life. They are too possessive. They are over protective

[CorbetRig]

Oh if that's how things are, why don't someone else to talk to them. Like an uncle, grandparents or someone elder?

[Asker]

This isn't working out. Elders already spoke with them about this. But my parents are too stubborn with their decisions to even listen them

[CorbetRig]

Tell them you'll run away with a guy