Why did he dump me because I'm "too nice"?

[Anonymous]

[Crankor]

Would need more details to know. But if that was to be a reason, I'd say it would be that being too nice, there's little distinction to how you act around a boyfriend vs a guy who isn't. Can't say if that applies to your situation though. Could just be a Lame excuse too

[Asker]

How am I supposed to act them?

[Anonymous]

Do you have any friends or know any women that have done this with a guy? That lol. I wouldn't take this personally (hard I know), you just weren't what HE is looking for, but you won't be too nice for someone. For some, there's no such thing. Keep looking.

[Travellingjunkie92]

I found out he's a bit of a jerk and he has millions of girls that have blocked him. His new girl has already blocked him maybe it wasn't me as a person

[PrettyPriya]

That is an odd one. Sounds like an excuse to me and he couldn't find another reason. Some more context may change my opinion but just seems like he couldn't think of a reason and that was first thing he could clumsily come up with.

[Asker]

Maybe I noticed he started to bad mouth me at everything I did and my hobbies. Not sure what I did I was never clingy hardly ever texted him

[PrettyPriya]

Sounds like if that was the case, best off not together. You don't want to spend your life with someone immature that bad mouths everything you do.

[Asker]

I feel like he only appreciated me when I did kinky things and said my hobbies are boring even tho he's into hiking etc

[PrettyPriya]

If he was only nice around you when you were sexual with him, he may have just been using you for sex. It almost sounds like that was his way of getting you to be "kinky".

Think of it almost as a reward or mental conditioning. You gave him what he wanted and in return he was nice. When he wasn't getting what he wanted, he was rude.

[Asker]

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he's had like 10 exes and has a lot of girls that blocked him because he used to use my Instagram to check on them

[Asker]

Could it be me or his unrealistic standards doesn't he likes anyone

[PrettyPriya]

It isn't you. It is him and his attitude in general.

[Asker]

Very bad attitude and for a minute there I thought it was me maybe that new girl will figure him out. Maybe he's just lwasing girls on for sex

[PrettyPriya]

Certainly seems the case. I guess be glad you are out of that relationship. Doesn't sound like it had anything to do with you as a person.

[Passion_Devil]

That doesn't make sense to me. The only situation where I can see that being a thing is you agreeing to everything he says and does and suffering because of it.

[Asker]

When I did say no he would say I'm being moody

[Passion_Devil]

I have no idea then, sorry.

[Asker]

he's probably a massive jerk I remember he said ge had like 10 exes

[dustybiker]

He probably found someone else and made a choice.

[Asker]

He used to ask for my Instagram to follow girls that blocked him on Instagram

[Anonymous]

He's toxic and you are still chasing him. But the majority of women are attracted to unhealthy toxicity...

[Bklynbadboy12]

How do you know that why he dumped you did he tell you that? Did you ask him why? I'm not attacking you I was just curious cause thats a stupid reason to dump someone

[Anonymous]

He might have been cheating and needed any excuse to get out before you found out

[Asker]

The girl he's dating is into the same stuff as me and looks like a downgrade

[Avicenna]

Maybe that wasn’t the truth

[Asker]

He calls me boring if I don't do any thing crazily sexual

[Sam_The_Savage]

He means you're boring...

[Asker]

he's the one that never wanted to go out or do anything

[Sam_The_Savage]

Bkoz he thinks you're boring...
So he refused to go out with you.

What's the reason?

[Asker]

he's had like 10 exes and has a lot of girls that blocked him because he used to use my Instagram to check on them

[Sam_The_Savage]

Than what r u doing with him. Lol dump him.

[Asker]

Maybe he leads people on for sex

[Sam_The_Savage]

So you had sex with him?

[Staximus]

How about go find a guy that values you

[Anonymous]

Welcome to how most dudes feel.

[Notok88]

Nah he's got like 10 exes and asks for my Instagram to look at the blocked girls