How come he dumped me even though I treated him very well?

[Anonymous]

Gave a place rent free while he looked for a job, 50/50 on evey date, never lost my temper, cleaned up his mess and cooked him meals regularly

[rtj1211]

Could be any number of reasons, but most likely you were 'too safe' - you sound like you were acting like his wife even though you were just his girlfriend. Even like his mother, giving him rent-free accommodation.

Some guys need the excitement of the chase, even if they have already 'captured you'. Keeping him on his toes with the way you flirt with him, make him work to seduce you, keep him uncertain that you will always be 'his girl'?

One wise woman once said that the secret to marriage was the woman making the man chase her all his life... there's an element of truth to that. As long as he has to focus on chasing you, his goal is to catch you.

Maybe you needed to start the chase anew each time you were together?

He might just be a user of course. But sometimes men in a comfort zone become bored, hemmed in, domesticated.

[boggboss]

Because being nice or a good person don't mean a relationship is working or he saw u guys as long term sure it helps but not the core

[Micksss]

Read the answers below and highly disappointed with the response.. Men have a habit of blaming it on women.. If a woman is good to them, they'll find her boring, men are attracted to the ones who keep them on their toes, they find such women 'exciting', and then these are the women who dump them for another man who earns well, and then the same 'exciting' woman becomes a bitch for them.. These men😂😂

[TroyDT]

Because he did not care about you, but only about what he could get from you till he was ready to move on. It is sad, but you are not alone. Nice people get used by selfish people all the time.

[Anonymous]

Did he earn any of those things?

[In_Trance]

Obviously he doesn't see it the way you do