Do short guys only have the option to date fat girls?

[Anonymous]

I'm a guy who is 5'6 and even though I'm fit and and workout I think that height takes that all away. I'm seeing that even short girls are gravitating towards tall guys so the only option we have right now are fat and unhealthy girls. What do you think about this?

[MCheetah]

Well, fat girls are entitled just as much as skinny girls, so they wouldn't want us, either. Not that you should be looking at fat girls like the "desperate and pathetic" option.

You're trying to apply logic to female nature, and they don't work like that. Fat girls have a "six feet and taller" rule just like the rest of them. At best, women want men who are are least seven inches taller than them.

So assuming you had a shot (you and me both are short, so it's doubtful), your BEST bet would be women who were 4'11"/150 cm and under. Maybe try them.

[Gaibriel]

That sucks.

I don't believe it because I see short hot men all the time and there is no way they don't get dick or pussy.

This one dude at the gym is short and he's ripped and hot.

If someone doesn't like you for your height, why date them? Seems shallow.

Sorry but idc about damn height! It's about more than that but I guess some people can't get aroused without the man being 8 foot tall.

[Cherry234]

Some short girls can be very picky about height. Perhaps average height women are less picky. I'm not sure. I can't speak for all of them. I'm about your height (like an inch shorter than you) and I don't require any guy to be 6 ft. I just want a guy that's taller than me or at least my height. I'm also not overweight and I'm in reasonably good shape.

[Asker]

What should guys like me do then? Should we go with average height women only? But I don't know if they would like us, that's the problem.

[Cherry234]

Just go for a woman who doesn't have a problem with your height, whether she's shorter or taller than you. Preferences are an individual thing so I can't speak for all women. It's something to ask an individual woman.

[Asker]

It's like hit or miss.

[Cherry234]

Yeah unfortunately.

[AvaOneLasTime]

There is constantly different reasons found, on this site, to shame and make fun of men. First balls, then penis size, then height, what is next?
But do you know WHO is next? Women.
Once people tire out of creating questions in which to humiliate men about something, its our turn, us women.
Is this place about to become shaming site?

[Asker]

I don't know, maybe people enjoy it

[AvaOneLasTime]

Do i look like i do? In few days, i don't even see myself here anymore

[Asker]

I think you do enjoy, you commented on my other question too 🤣.

[AvaOneLasTime]

that's simply your belief. i am actually frustrated. I wrote 10 articles for this site, out of frustration.

[Asker]

Perhaps that's what you wanna become. You like writing articles I think you should continue it.

[AvaOneLasTime]

What i am to become, is a Med. Student, after teaching grown ass adults here, about biology and anatomy. My exam is in two days.

[Asker]

What you gonna write in your exam that you let people know about size, balls and height? You're gonna get good marks.

[AvaOneLasTime]

Have you ever been to exam before entering university? You can't just write whatever you want, there are mostly questions there, related to the content you are supposed to have studied in High School.
jeez, what the pandemic has done to all of you?

[Asker]

I guess pandemic just made you a med student I think so.

[Anonymous]

That you might need to search longer than a tall guy, but it is not impossible. I personally prefer a guy your height than above 6', believe it or not (I know many don't xD), and I know plenty of short guys who are married/not single.
Though unfortunately majority of people in the western world are overweight, so it really is more difficult to find someone in a healthy shape. I also struggle with that :D, but as said it is not impossible, so giving up because of that is unfortunate.

[Asker]

I'm fit, I have abs as well but still I feel worthless 😞.

[Opinion Owner]

not to sound like i know you, but sounds like it is not only about the height. Possibly something you can work on instead of focusing on your looks

[Asker]

Instead what?

[Opinion Owner]

how you see yourself as a person

[Asker]

Meaning?

[Opinion Owner]

that if you are more happy about the person you are you will likely also care less about your appearance

[Asker]

Oh, but does it change the fact?

[Opinion Owner]

what fact?

[Asker]

That I'm undesirable?

[Opinion Owner]

yes, you cannot be undesireable to every woman just because you are 5'6.

[Asker]

But I just keep listening every girl says 6ft and what not, it just creates a perception that we're unwanted and alienated.😞

[Opinion Owner]

every girl does not say that. Look at couples, you never see anyone shorter than you with a girlfriend?

[Asker]

I see but it's rare, plus I don't know maybe they are rich or something

[Opinion Owner]

if you truly believe that, then you might as well give up on it all together.
I am sorry you feel like that, I hope you will get to see height, weight and being rich is not the most important for finding a partner. But surely I cannot change your mind on the matter, so I leave it here. Take care