In the same way that women who give up sex too quickly are unattractive to men are men who want a relationship too quickly unattractive to women?

[Gangactivities911]

My first instinct is to tell women that I am looking for something moreso serious that casual but I really feel like telling them the opposite gets better results and I’m not sure what to make of it. Anyone have a take?

[England4eva]

If he says this before we meet up it’s a bit of a red flag for me. Just because I’d think “oh, so he literally is looking for anyone who will be with him.” And I’d feel unimportant and not special at all

[Anonymous]

It depends on how quickly they want a relationship and if they are pushy about being in a relationship.

[BarryLiverstone]

I don’t think someone ‘gives up Sex’, it comes down to their intentions. So if you want a serious relationship it’s ok to let someone know

[slatyb]

Unattractive to which men? The ones that can't do math?

[Anonymous]

Desperation is unattractive.

[zagor]

If it comes off as needy, yeah.

[Anonymous]

Yes to the first question
No to the second

[Yourfriend2021]

I agree with you.