Do nightclubs or online dating work better for you when it comes to having a quality interaction with someone you find attractive?

[Anonymous]

I haven't tried either

I haven't tried nightclubs

I haven't tried online dating

Online works better

Nightclubs work better

They're both great on an equal level

They both suck on an equal level

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s better through friends or meeting at events

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you tried online?

[Asker]

Yeah it's definitely easier to have an interaction online as a girl but not necessarily of high quality and it just doesn't feel natural. I'm curious how others feel about this though

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s what I heard but as you say the quantity is higher but I found quality online is way down. Nope it’s not natural and one reason is 80% of communication is nonverbal. So people are saying things but hardly learning about each other. Would you say it’s safer online tho?

[Asker]

Ohh I guess in theory it is safer because women can be super selective online and women are naturally always looking out for their safety for the most part. Also with stories like the tinder swindler, women are watching out more. Hoards of intoxicated people nearby can also be avoided. I do think some women especially the younger ones can be reckless online too but I feel like putting yourself in a nightclub already puts women at a higher risk due to alcohol, drugs and being out late

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya as a guy we rarely worry that much about safety and are more willing to take risks. I’ve learned how much girls think about feeling secure and tried to be sensitive to that need. True I’ve come across reckless people; they learn