How do I make sure someone likes me for beyond just my looks?

[Anonymous]

I’ve noticed men have a tendency to get a little carried away with me when they’re into me at first. But I always think it’s because they’re very interested in what I look like, and not really into who I am. How do you find someone who actually likes you for who you are?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, you gotta be interesting, your personality has to stand out just as much as your looks. You can’t really make yourself be an interesting person if you’re not. But, you can go above and beyond to show that you have a good personality and you’re worthwhile. Pay close attention to behaviors and words.


Looks change and fade over time, if a guy is only with you for how you look, then it will be apparent… The relationship will quickly turn distant or fade off if your looks change (negatively). If you stop trying to impress or look pretty, and then he becomes more uninterested, then there’s your answer… He’s only attracted to your looks.


If you stop trying to look pretty, and he is still just as interested in you and is still happy, etc. Then I think that shows that they like you for who you are, and your looks are a plus. You could even ask the guy what he sees in you, or what he likes about you. If the majority of his answers revolve around your looks, then it shows his priority is looks, not who you are.


Sooner or later with relationships, you’re gonna get to a point where you see each other at their worst, physically and emotionally.. If a guy is still interested after seeing your worst, you got a winner lol.

[Anonymous]

When you know who you are, and what you have to offer, you will know that this is what really interests a person. if you are asking such a question then maybe you don't know what you have to offer.

[Anonymous]

Behave rudely for a month. If he stays, he loves you