I’m not very visual so I don’t like someone just for the way they look, but still I’ve experienced liking someone just because they were really nice and seemed to like me too. To me the difference is that you like them even when they don’t give you attention and you like being next to them even if you guys aren’t talking at the moment. You might get a special feeling when you look them in the eyes. Usually it’s a more romantic feeling not just sexual. Think about how you usually think about them. Is it mostly romantic, or mostly physical?
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Girlll I have the same problem. And once they really start showing me they like me or tell me I pull away. I don't know if it just me liking the attention for play play or if I’m too scared to commit to something.
This the first time I've read on here that you admit to rejecting a lot of Guys, The fact is you don't know what you want especially at your age.
I think when get to your 30s you will have a much better idea of what you want so just keep having fun and enjoying yourself.
Give it time. Think about what exactly you like about them. If it goes beyond looks, maybe then you actually like them. For me its looks that attract at first but its the person behind those looks that keeps you attracted to them if their personality matches.
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That's a good question! It doesn't look like many girls answered though.
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