How do you know if a guy is just into you for your looks?

[Anonymous]

[Hellraiser1984]

Pick up lines, touching you obsessively when first meeting you, doesn't want you to know where he lives, you have nothing in common, wants sex on the first date or a one night stand, doesn't talk to you about anything but sex, acts super macho, if you tell him no about sex he gets pissed off and dumps you, brags about how many women he's been with, hides his phone in front of you so you don't see the other women he is using at the moment, not authentic with you ( meaning he just seems only interested in sex with you not talking to you about anything else) and every conversation you have he brings up sex. Also watch guys when you go out to see the ones doing what I call being a bumblebee meaning he just goes from woman to woman trying the same thing until one says yes. If he seems drunk it's because he's usually been buying drinks for all the girls he's been a bumblebee to and drinking all the alcohol he's ordered for himself doing so. Also he doesn't want to move the relationship forward, he just stays as long as you put out for him. Not all guys are bumblebees but please don't fall for a bumblebee they are usually not anything you want long-term.

[OneViewpoint]

Well, assume that every guy is into you because of your looks initially. People don't have much to go on initially and visual details are the most obvious ones. But over time time does he listen to you? Does he seem to share your sense of humor / laugh at your jokes? Does he acknowledge your talents and judgement especially in areas where he knows he's deficient? Those can be clues that he respects you and likes what he sees at more than a physical level. He's seeing that you have value beyond your looks.

[alice55]

Easy at first he'll fake interest in what you say (literally no matter what you talk about he'll act like he's very interested by what you're saying during hours / couple of days) then he'll start to ask for pics and talk about sex / want sexting if you refuse he'll start to gultrip you then if you continue to refuse he'll just straight up insult you, ignore you for three day then comeback act all sweet and ignore again if you refuse and then he'll just start to get really pressuring and start to force you to drink alcohol with you (even if you don't drink alcohol he'll try to force you), etc... This is for the one who have a little bit of patience others will just straight up ask for sex and then pressure you with hundred of questions asking when you're gonna put out and if sex is a no then if it's ok for smaller stuff...

Happened so many time to me than now I can catch them for miles...

[lilBigPotato]

Mostly how much effort he puts into anything not related to looks or sex.

Sure if he gives a lot of compliments, asks for pictures, instantly wants to have sex etc could be signs but those are things I would expect from many guys even if they like me for more than just looks so it's difficult to judge. I like you focus more on the other aspects... Does he try to get to know me better as a person? Goes out of his way to make me happy? Doesn't lose interest after having sex? There's many things you can pay attention to and get a good idea of what he wants

[SteveSmith1985]

If he doesn't seem all that interested in getting to know you as a person. He should be interested in finding out more about you, your life, your thoughts, feelings and values.

You won't worry that a guy is into you for your looks if he's really actually into you. You'll see and feel that he is interested in YOU underneath your appearance.

Unless you're especially suspicious of this due to past experiences... I'd say, if you're wondering... he's probably into you for your looks.

[Finchie40]

He doesn’t really ask you personal questions and doesn’t really care about getting to know you , whatsoever , he just wants to have sex with you and that’s it , if you have sex with a guy that just gets up and leaves when he is finished , then he just wanted to get off on you , a guy that really likes you is going to want to stay with you after sex and make plans with you to see you again , by asking you on another date or going somewhere with him , he is going to ask about your personal life and find out as much detail about you as he possibly can, He enjoys being near you even when you aren’t having sex. He is going to look forward to going on dates with you and doing things with you more , other then just sex He isn’t just going to call you up and say Ypu wanna fuck. Lol

[Salaciousrouge]

Its a fair bet that he is! Its how our minds work. We have the primordial prediliction (sp?) Of seeking beauty and health. I'd say at the beginning its 90% he is. As time passes, even short term, then certainly long term, this will wear off, even if your still hot! His eyes will wander but this does not mean he is finished with you. Time spent is proof that you offer more than being arm candy.

You want evidence he only keeps you as a trophy then see how he treats you when you dont shine. Is there an expectation that you always be polished? Try going out with him wearing zero make-up and unappealing clothes. Do your best to be unattractive. If he complains, then your a trophy.

[PeachyPie93]

You know it by his compliments, if he actually enjoys talking to you, spending time doing things together. If he only compliments your looks, only wants to have sex or just takes you out to show off he doesn't like you for anything other than how you look.

[nerdemoji9]

i can confirm this, at least from my limited scope

[Anonymous]

Are we talking about before or after you have sex with him?

Before... He wouldn't compliment your body, he'd listen more than he compliments or speak more about anything, he'd love everything about you and he would compliment the little things. (this is my point of view)

After... He wouldn't be rushed to stop conversation after having sex with you, he'd still want to talk to you or he'll still show interest after, stays in bed with you to cuddle wants to still overall speak to you with no rush in his tone. Unless he genuinely has to do something important. (Again this is my point of view not everyone is like this, some don't know how to show it.)

[Nikki1989]

His compliments are overwhelmingly focused on your physical attributes (your body, face, hair, etc.) and lack depth. Many men constantly do it.

[AnonAndrew]

There's no way to know. The more attractive you are, the more likely he is to fake an interest in you just to get with you.

[Ferngully2000]

But why would he fake an interest? Isn’t he’s just interested?

[Ferngully2000]

Or is it the emote attractive you are, the more he just wants to sleep with you?

[Ferngully2000]

**more

[AnonAndrew]

@Ferngully2000 You got it. The more attractive a girl is, the more likely a guy is to want to sleep with her, and the more likely he is going to put in the effort even if he doesn't like her as a person.

[serious]

Well, if the guy only mentions about your physique, about sex and about your body parts and does not talk about anything else then that is how you know

[Purpleronnie]

Looks are the primary marker for the massive majority of guys and gals , likely more so guys so good luck to anyone determining if a guy under 25 has been captured by anything else !

[4ngelic]

if he seems to not be that interested in getting to know you and it feels like he mainly comes to see you for sex

[OlderAndWiser]

If he wants to wake up with you the next morning, it may be more than just lust.

[slatyb]

With patience. See if he listens to you, pays attention, is genuinely interested in your life. Are you a priority, or an option? That's hard to fake. Have sex if you want to, but don't try to trade it for love or commitment.

[Anonymous]

If he is an old man who only dates significantly younger women. Then chances are he is only with you because of your looks. Once you lose your looks, he will go for a woman even younger than you

[blueonblack22]

At your age that’s going to be 80-90% of the guys you encounter.

[Blueeyes81]

Quiz him about personal stuff you shared with him. Odds are if he is into you he will savor every word you say. If he just wants some ass he most likely won't be listening to much you say.

[ProbablyClueless]

Whether he genuinely takes an interest in your hobbies and interests.

[GallopAcrossEurope]

If he isn't trying to get to know you on a personal level and is instead only dropping flirts, pickup lines, and sexual innuendos, chances are he is just into your looks.

[Anonymous]

Same way you tell if a woman is into a guy just for his attention. You don't! It can all be an act.

[ManWithNoseAndFeet]

should be obvious if not u hot to tighten some screws in ur noodle

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Conversation are mostly shallow and the main focus is sex or sexual conversations.

[CB-Raido-Time]

It would be wise if he were into you for your looks because if he doesn't have that invested in you then he is out for something else.

[LiamJHayden]

Eventually you will learn to filter out that type, but for now just look for the clues. Does he care about your hopes or dreams or plans or interests? Does he complain if you dress fumpily for something where super casual dress is fine?

[JohnnyB123321]

Probably when there is not much to talk about because they are different people. Or they don’t spend much time together because they really would rather be doing other things.

[Iron_Man]

sex then he goes home then he calls you again for more sex

[blackeagle007]

Men are sensitive to a woman’s appearance. It’s human survival. The healthiest looking woman gives birth to healthy children. Come on, a guys looks important to you ladies

[Godihateyou]

If you are dumb, mean and Joyce's and have a boyfriend, it is because of your looks

[Rioum]

We’ll see how much of an interest he takes in your life. Generally I’d say looks and everything else like personality are 50/50 you can’t have one without the other. I feel like most guys operate this way

[Anonymous]

It usually starts with observing your looks, but later, most guys develop some feelings.

[WonderingManII]

I think if He's into you just for your looks, the relationship won't last.

[TDDMS]

When his nutsack is slapping against your ass.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Do you have anything in common? interests, hobbies, etc?

[nawtee_me]

The same way a guy would know if a girl is just into him for his looks? Do girls show that in any way for him to notice?

[Anonymous]

If he remembers small insignificant details about you

[standardguy]

You can check it out by wearing boring clothes and no makeup in the next date

[WhitneySnow]

If he only compliments your appearance

[Babebytheshore85]

You wouldn't be asking this question

[DrPepper12]

We're dicks but not THAT shallow!! I hope

[afnan169]

What's wrong if he is after your looks?

[TracyWants]

If they don't call back after hooking up

[PrettyCrumblBb]

He doesn't take interest in your interest.

[Shy_Steve]

He is Confident.

[Gaylordslav]

he can't have sex with your brain or personality

[exitseven]

he keeps taking off your clothes

[jahaims]

His behavior

[In_Trance]

Ask him

[Luckycharms12]

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