What do guys hide from girls so they won't get rejected?

[talka20]

I saw question asked by @marish01 which is What do women hide the most for not getting rejected by the men they like? ↗

So i thought of asking the one i asked

[AmandaYVR]

Their true intentions, what they want. Sometimes that's just sex, sometimes it's a deep and meaningful relationship.

How much they like the girl. They think eagerness will either get them hurt, or make them look desperate, or expose their feelings too much.

Their vulnerability. Not just about their feelings about the girl, but vulnerability in general. Many believe that the girl will lose attraction to him. That's generally only true of the immature girls.
Ladies, True or False: "I've lost attraction to a/my man I really cared about because he expressed vulnerability?

[talka20]

Thats a pretty good answer ngl

[LittleBlueTheRappa]

Why they must hide that they jus want sex tho?
Surely there must be some. girls that jus want that too or else why do girls sometimes. mastirbate to porn?
It's not like they wanna marry the porn actors.. they're jus using their appearance temporary to get off and they be it.. why can't they want to do the same with a real guy too?

[AmandaYVR]

@LittleBlueTheRappa Guys shouldn't lie if what they want is just sex. The deception is what wastes a lot of time (and potentially patience, money, etc.) for both people. But the larger ramification is that a portion of the guys wanting this but not being upfront about it, causes the majority of females who want more than just sex to become rightly mistrusting and very skeptical of all males. Then a legit approach from a guy who potentially wants more, or understandably doesn't yet know what he wants because he doesn't know her yet... he can't get to know her because she has been approached by the bold guys who are not afraid of rejection. They're playing the numbers game and don't really care if she sneers or brushes him off.
Men really need to stop putting all of this blame on women/girls for their skepticism, and dish some of it out to the players who do just want sex, and create this contentious dynamic between the sexes.

I remember a private chat I had with a guy on here. What he eventually discovered in his life is that being upfront about just wanting sex actually worked much better for him than trying to obfuscate this fact. He said women seemed to appreciate the more direct approach. Some even said yes. He felt better about not lying, and it was overall more efficient. It is absolutely possible to not lie to people about your intentions. And people sleep better, with a clear conscience.

I highly doubt this (lying to get sex) will ever change dramatically. It's baked into culture and communication. But everyone would likely be in a better situation (in terms of their feelings towards the opposite sex) if there was more honesty. Most women will still say no, of course, but legit distrust would be less. However, the reason men lie is because they are more likely to get a woman to sleep with them if she believes that he's really into her, and sees a potential relationship between them.

[exitseven]

Fear of rejection is a real thing. Sometimes people can be cruel and make fun of somebody;'s advances. Sometimes it can become a group activity.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[MCheetah]

Height (if you're not tall)
Honesty
Insecurities

[MCheetah]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Creampiekarl420]

Middle school photos ( I was fat) and driver’s licenses ( I was doing heroin when I took them) lastly my heroin problem

[talka20]

Oh and have u told any parteners later in life?

[Creampiekarl420]

No because apparently that’s nobodies deal breaker until it is

[NathanDavis]

Nothing To Hide... and I don't get rejected either

[talka20]

Great then

[NathanDavis]

if you don't ask them you do not get rejected..

[DWornock]

Excon, unemployed or low income.

[talka20]

I don't know what is excon but i agree to 2md one... a lot of em do it

[DWornock]

Excon, actually it should be ex-con is common term for ex-convict; That is, someone that was in prison.

[talka20]

Oh i dint know its said as excon too okay okay thanks

[htmndg183]

Bad habits such as smoking lol.

[talka20]

Not mostly tho

[Anonymous]

Anything that signals any kind of weakness.

[talka20]

And is that general or personal asnwer?

[Opinion Owner]

General. They'll hide financial weakness, emotional weakness, physical, intellectual, poor taste... anything that indicates inferiority of any kind.

[LittleBlueTheRappa]

The fact I am attracted to any girls

[talka20]

Why u feel like hiding it? This just mean u dont have type u just love who u get along w

[LittleBlueTheRappa]

Any time I flirt with a girl or show interest they call me a creep, even if she flirted with me first... Don't know why, girls are just weird

[LittleBlueTheRappa]

They love to call guys creeps and make guys upset

[talka20]

Oh thats kinda messed up tho

[LittleBlueTheRappa]

Yeah lol 😭

[Anonymous]

Sexuality...

[talka20]

For some reason im curious where r u from?

[Opinion Owner]

Ny is where lol

[talka20]

Oh i see.. thanks tho

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Themselves entirely