Boyfriend told me he likes pole dancers?

[Anonymous]

He told me he likes pole dancers but would never see one. I’m kinda upset he said this though. What do you guys think?

[HighlyVolatile]

Is he talking about strippers or women dedicated to pole dancing as a sport? I tend to like pole dancers as well but not strippers. Take Oona Kivela as an example. I think she's a superhuman athlete:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/09T1Q5Andkghttps://www.youtube.com/embed/6ychdzz6UEA

[slatyb]

I think you have the wrong motion about what's it like being in a relationship. When we're with someone, we don't differently become blind to all others. Our attractions don't change. Instead of feeling insecure whenj he says something like that, be happy he feels safe telling you the truth.

[HotPinkDominatrxSlut]

I love yo pole dance and my husband finds it very sexy.

[ChrisMaster69]

There is nothing wrong with liking them,

would you have same reaction if he said he liked Hollywood actresses?

[Luggit]

I think what he's saying is. He likes seeing it, but not enough to actually go to one. That's my guess.

[Wise4myage]

He might be dropping hints about wanting you to pole dancing for him?

[CuriousMufuxka]

I don't see the big deal. It's kinda like if a girl says she likes a Hollywood star buff dude.