I love wearing heels but I'm only about 5ft3 -5ft4 like reeses I like wearing them when I'm dressing up or going out or trying to get a guys attention or some times because it makes me feel more confident andi just prefer wearing heels but if you don't like wearing heels I'd say to tell your boyfriend that you don't feel wearing massive heels but maybe you could wear them on special occasions or just some times just so you can both be happy, or maybe say you'll wear heels at times but not massive ones, just about average ones, if I'm not dressing up I often wear my boots with a heel (not a fat heel but not a really skinny heel like on stilettos) just a nice average heel and they can look quite casual or I can dress them up depending on what I'm wearing, I'd just say though talk to you boyfriend about it and discuss what both makes you happy or what your unhappy/uncomfortable with and meet half way in the middle with it all :)
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it's just wearing high heels. I don't believe that is a huge thing. if you don't want to, just say you don't want to. I like wearing high heels myself but only when I'm dressing up or trying to get some guy's attention and it goes well with dresses I have.
i think what bruce said is a bit harsh- the reason people ask questions anonymously using this website is obviously because they are too embarassed to ask people they know! I don't think it does either though, just thinks they look hot most likely.
My Girlfriend is tall and she refuses to wear high heels out because of this.
It's a bit of a downer for me as I love the way High heels look on a woman. The way they define the calf muscle tighten the Thigh and Butt. What's not to like?
But the fact that she doesn't wear them is not a deal breaker. There is always room to waer them in the Bedroom ;o)
it means he likes that particular fashion. everybody has a couple things they really like, unless its super physical like bullwhips ballgags and latex crap, it says nothing about his romance style, just his clothing style preference.
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What the hell does this ( we are young and don't partake in scandalous debauchery,)
have to do with your wearing high heels...that is the stupidist comment I have heard to date, and you may quote me on that !He's just a regular guy that likes his girlfriend to look super sexy. High spiky heels do that! I think flat shoes on girls should be banned, personally. So high heels can hurt your feet - so what? They look great.
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