Might be coming off too strong?

[Anonymous]

Just as the question says. I was made aware that I might be coming off too strong. I go into things as I only have one chance, and I really want to make a good impression. The biggest thing is I tend to go in saying I want a relationship. This also adds to my boring convo skills. I don’t know how to make it more fun since i don’t have a lot of experiences, and tend to not have much to say. I don’t know how to change the mindset of its all or none, and actually showing a woman I’m worth getting into a relationship with. With the statement of I don’t have many experiences, I don’t go many places. Just home, work, church, and the places I know. I’m not much of the adventurous type. Which makes me feel like something is wrong with me (people normally have all kinds of goals, I met the ones I had and currently can’t figure out new goals). This makes me feel like something is wrong with me, and that a girl wouldn’t want anything to deal with me. I need some advice.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I mean, it sounds like you know what you need to do - set new goals, gain more experience.

You mentioned your church - maybe your preacher can help guide you with some life advice. Maybe there's group activities facilitated through church.

Why not start there, gain your life experiences, and actually become someone who can have interesting things to tell women?