Was I too strong?

So I meet this new guy at school. He's not shy; id says he's reserved. He's quiet and usually with his younger brother (I go to an all-age school). I took an interest in him. We have shared some short eye contact before. We never speak; well, at least, he doesn't speak to me. One day, he didn't have a book we were reading because he was new. So I offered to share, and he was polite and took it. Last week, we had secret Santa in school. He got me a nice beautiful gift. I tapped him on his back and said thank you for the gift with a warm smile. He replied, "Oh, that's not a problem. After that, he waited for his brother, and I smiled at him and his little brother because of how well he treated his brother. Am I being too strong?

Was I too strong?
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