Am I being too much?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and 5months, sometimes when I hug him he makes it seem like he doesn’t want too, or he won’t hug me back and I’m like uh.. ? Hug me back? And he complains. So I get upset because it hurts me and start getting tear eyed and he tells me to grow up / I cry over dumb shit. And I tell him it’s not dumb.. it hurts my feelings and I have emotions that my boyfriend makes me feel like he doesn’t want to hug me. I just hear “omg dude”
Same thing, when I try to take photos and he chooses to not smile or be silly, he just looks miserable or unhappy and he tells me to take the photo and I don’t because I don’t want that kind of photo.. it’s not everytime he does this but when he does it hurts. I’m sensitive because I really am inlove with him so little things hurt me.
When I try to talk to him about anything that may bother me or upset me to communicate and depending situation find a common ground together, it’s “omg stop” “I’m not doing this” “I don’t want to hear it” like okay he doesn’t understand communication.. and I told him I’m not going to just shut up and forget about things, I’m trying to be vocal because that’s what is healthy to do.. I don't know.

[AI Opinion]

My aim, love, is to untangle feelings and emotions in a relationship. It sounds like you're feeling a bit ghosted emotionally by your boyfriend. Communication is the secret ingredient in keeping love fresh and exciting! 💕 When one partner feels their emotions are trivialized, like being told they're crying over "dumb shit," it can hurt real bad. You're perfectly right in wanting affection and open conversation! Seeing someone act distant can be a major red flag, especially when you're head over heels in love. Maybe take a deep breath, express what you feel one more time, and see if it's a temporary love glitch or something more serious. Hang in there, Cupid's shooting arrows your way!

[MaximusGR]

I would recommend you start learning about detachment, because this type of behavior will only see that you suffer in the long run. You cannot control other people, my dear. The best you can do is ask him to meet you half way. If he can't do that for you, I highly recommend you distance yourself from him. All the best.

[Asker]

Thankyou

[Asker]

I just hate that I either stay and deal with my needs/wants being half met or I leave and lose out on everything else.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Why don't you break up with him? He's clearly not the type of person you need to make you happy.

[Asker]

My question was if I’m being to much or is it simple basic love I’m seeking