POLL- DO GUYS WANT FREEDOM FOREVER OR START LIFE WITH A GIRL?

[Sugar100]

Do you guys want be free & never settle down or do you want me to start life with a girl? All guys I know want be free & never marry never have girlfriend. And freedom til old age. yet I see men at stores all next to a women and baby stroller? I made a poll so all the guys can give their opinion. my boyfriend wants be free and have kids until age 40. He’s 30 but has mentality like he’s 25 still. I see one show & one guy is also 30 has girlfriend but he wants be at strip clubs be free party & don’t want to have a baby but his girlfriend gets pregnant & they end up settling down in new apartment. Shouldn’t girls be the ones saying we want freedom as we have to have belly growing child? guys have it easy what they want freedom for?

FREEDOM FOREVER

Start future with girl

[libsaretards]

Depends on what is being considered "freedom" here. To me being free is being allowed to make my own choices without being nagged about it. For example, if I want to meet with guy friends it should not be a struggle to convince my girl to let me do so. However, being free is not a license to cheat, break the law or be irresponsible. I just want to be trusted enough that not all my decisions are second-guessed by a woman. Any woman who dates me must understand that I am not submissive to her hand and foot. She is an equal partner to me but I am still my own person who will have my own interests and come and go as I please. However, she would also understand I will man up and put needs before wants and family before all else. That balance is freedom to me.

[kinggeorge007]

Starting line with a girl shouldn't mean the end of freedom. Freedom doesn't mean going around cheating. Freedom is the ability to do stuff they like without having to go through a blockade or something.

[Sugar100]

I don’t see relationships as blockade either 👍🏼

[Anonymous]

If I met a girl that would always be faithful and was cute, caring, friendly, and happy, then I would settle down with her. Otherwise, what's the point? Break ups, mind games, single dad, gold diggers, cheating, etc. If it wasn't the right girl, I'd rather be free.

[Sugar100]

I’m all of that and why boyfriend say he want be free? Maybe til 40 he want kids then he’s like tbh I don't know I don’t think of my future or wen I’m that age.

[Opinion Owner]

You sound like a nice girl. I don't know some guys are jerks. I'm older and never had kids, you have to have the right girl for that. I wish you good luck :)

[JBlade]

Freedom forever if I had to choose but I don’t think that’s something I should have to give up for a relationship. I’d prefer to both. Make compromises, sure but lose freedom, no.

[genericname85]

i think most guys wanna be free and fuck around till they eventually find a girl that they actually can see themself staying with.

[Sugar100]

Then y boyfriend told me he wants be free, maybe have baby til 40? Then he’s liked I don't know tbh I don’t think if that stuff. so he don’t even know what he want lol

[genericname85]

cause he's not "most guys".

[Sugar100]

I can’t be alone forver with my baby tho 😞 I’ll be lonley living alone in my apartment. Couples go to holiday gatherings, Easter party, Thanksgiving party, dinner with parents. There’s no life just being alone in my house bored

[genericname85]

yeah being a single mom isn't a good thing xD

[exitseven]

It was sort of like this.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/P7S82xqaR7g

[Anonymous]

'Shouldn’t girls be the ones saying we want freedom.'

Most girls don't want freedom, they want security and protection.

[Ghen30]

This is accurate somewhat, but I want all of that. Freedom, security and protection.

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghen30 It depends on your definition of freedom. But it will be reduced as soon as you have a partner / family no matter what.

[Ghen30]

Freedom as in, I don't want kids. I like my freedom to still enjoy my hobbies. I would only marry a guy who also didn't want kids.

[Opinion Owner]

@Ghen30 Then you will want to meet the Sigma type.

[zagor]

They only have it easy if they have freedom.

And there are a lot of guys willing to settle down. Just not usually at 22.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's not true all guys don't want to be free I'm only 34 and I've been wanting to settle down since I was 27

[Sugar100]

I’m 25 and want settle down at 27 in 2 years lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

I like that seems like you have it all figured out. At what age do you want to have your first baby

[Sugar100]

27 lol, I told boyfriend and he’s 30 but he want be free might want baby until he’s 40, then he’s like I don't know tbh I don’t think of it or think what I’ll do by that age.

[Bklynbadboy12]

But if he's in a relationship he's not free

[Sugar100]

He hang out with me weekly on his day off lol makes no sense?

[AydenHazor]

Depends on the guy, some want to settle down, some do not

[Juxtapose]

I don't plan to have kids anyway so..

[Twalli]

I don't want kids, but I do want a wife.

[Ghen30]

Same, but I'm looking for a husband one day.

[Anonymous]

I don't want marriage or kids.

[TheLastRhodesian]

Freedom forever.

[TX651]

No...

[Sugar100]

No what?