Do guys ask u to be their girlfriends to get you into bed?

[Anonymous]

Is it common for guys to ask you to be their girlfriend just do you can have sex and then leave? We haven’t done anything but he has asked me to be his girlfriend on multiple occasions. In person and over message. Now this is our first time discussing having sex and I’m 20 and a virgin I don’t want anyone to get play me. Should I be concerned?

[kitkills]

Not normally. Usually it just happens because the girl thinks that and makes the relationship suck ass and be awkward with all the walls. Not always. But jesus fucking christ, the amount of times that happens.

[Asker]

So should I be concerned about it? I’m open to trying to date but I’ve been avoiding it because I don’t want that to happen to me

[kitkills]

That's what's gonna kill you guys. Seriously, go on the date lmao the only thing making the relationship bad atm is you being weird.

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you want to be his girlfriend? You can still have a boundary and not want to have sex for a while if you are committing to a relationship

[Asker]

This would be my first real boyfriend ever in my 20 years of life. I recently just started going out and dating around but I do like him and would like to know what it’s like

[BarryLiverstone]

But you don’t have to be his girlfriend if you don’t want to. You can still date him and date other guys. Do you want him to keep dating other people?

[slatyb]

If you have sex because you want to have sex, you can't be "played". You can never trade sex for love or commitment.

[TheLastRhodesian]

Obviously not, I have sex with them without commitment.

[Asker]

With virgins tho?

[TheLastRhodesian]

Virgin women are more valuable, with them I would consider having a long-term relationship.

[TrillXHippy]

It is uncommon. The thought of you thinking that is crazy

[Anonymous]

Nah, most women today will jump into your bed without needing to tell her that. 🙂