Do you ever ask regular guy friends to spend the night, on the same bed spooning, and ask them to spend the night again if you're not trying to hook up with them?
There is a girl that I've been friends with for a while and that's what she's doing with me and I'm not sure if she's trying to have something more with me or not.
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I have slept in the same bed with platonic male friends, but I didn't cuddle them or ASK them to stay the night with me necessarily. They ARE welcome to crash over anytime, if circumstances make doing so necessary or more convenient. They could sleep in my bed if they wanted to, as long as they're hands off, but I'd be more likely to make them a bed on the couch. I have a boyfriend right now though who I live with, so any guests definitely get the couch. We have mutual male friends [who are totally platonic with me] who stay over sometimes, and the couch is fine for them. I wouldn't cross those relationship boundaries and allow any other guy to sleep in our bed with me if my boyfriend was gone, let alone ask them to, regardless of how close we are because I know my dude wouldn't like it. I'd be pissed off about it too. But when I was single, I also didn't have my own place, so my bed would likely be the only place a guest would sleep, unless they wanted to make a bed on the floor. I'd just think it's more polite to offer sharing the bed so we could both be comfortable. I probably wouldn't even have a guy friend crash at my place if I didn't feel comfortable enough with the idea of sharing a bed with them, knowing they wouldn't try anything.0