Why does this guy not think I'm valuable?

[Anonymous]

I notice he re adds girls when the girl he really wants and she doesn't want to date him. I notice these girls he re adds are over weight or single mom's. I'm working in a bank, have my own city apartment and average 6/10 looks why does he think so low of me.

[RSav4013]

Sounds like he's having confidence issues if he's being rejected by the girl he really wants, so he's going to girls that he really has no intention of being with that he thinks will want him or stroke his ego. Sounds like he's doing it in order to get a confidence boost and then go after a woman that he really wants. It is a really shallow move, but unfortunately a lot of guys do it.

[Asker]

Feeling so low today and realising I'm not good looking enough for guys to be happy with me

[RSav4013]

Not everyone can be a 10/10, don't get to down on yourself. You have a couple options, you can rather work hard to make yourself more desirable which would give you a confidence boost of your own, or lower your standards and find someone else that makes you happy.

[Asker]

How can I make myself more desirable?

[Asker]

My body is in good shape but my face is nothing special

[RSav4013]

If you want to DM me we can talk more and I'll try to help however I can

[Guy13]

Who cares…From his choosing, why would you care⁉️ Move on…
Sounds like you are kind of stalking him🤔. If so then it’s probably a good match with two insecure joined together and off-the-market.

[Asker]

Nah he messaged me after months I figured you know that's what guys do... I haven't opened it up

[Guy13]

Gotcha. Seems like you are still a little interested though 🤔. Although, this could be filed under “Background Research” before opening message.
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[Asker]

Nah I'm not interested I'm just being used as a filler

[Anonymous]

People like different things. If somebody doesn't want you it's not worth wasting your time on them

[In_Trance]

everyone's perception of value is different