A boyfriend is under no obligation to pay for a girlfriend's bills. She best be paying for her own bills and if she's unable to pay her bills I'd advise the boyfriend to cut and run because ain't nobody got time for such fiscal irresponsibility.
If a person cannot live at or below their means it does not matter how much money they get access to, they will increase their lifestyle until the new income isn't enough. If someone makes $50,000 but spends $70,000, increasing their income to $70,000 won't fix anything because they'll just start spending $100,000.
A wife is not a girlfriend. They are very different roles regardless of what modern day people seem to think.
If you legally tie yourself to another person in a marriage then the rules are different. If you are married then you are obligated to provide for your partner. If you decide as partners that it is best for one to stay home with children or both work outside of the home, you are still legally obligated to provide for your spouse. It doesn't matter which one is working outside the home or who makes more, you have legally bound yourself to the other person and are recognized to be a marital unit.
Regardless of what role you assign this person, a fiscally irresponsible person will continue to be fiscally irresponsible. If you marry them and they rack up hundreds of thousands in debt... surprise! YOU now also have hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt!
Regardless of what's between their legs, a relationship with a financially irresponsible person should be avoided at all costs.
Well, the guys I dated when I was younger were just a broke as I was. There was only ONE time I ever asked an ex to borrow money to pay my car insurance bill and I paid it back to him immediately when I got paid.
I’ve been waiting to see a question like this so I can say what I’m about to say. There was a girl on here that asked “why do broke men try to date? If you can’t even take care of yourself how can you care for someone else?” If women are broke they should not date
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Men are not wallets. And those, who are being wallets to women? I won't feel bad for these suckers. However being broke isn't the right way.
If a woman wants someone to pay her bills, she doesn't have to break up with her boyfriend if he doesn't make enough money to do that for her. She can look into getting herself a male pay pig or non sexual sugar daddy for that purpose if she wants.
I have no need for some guy to pay my bills. I do that fine on my own. Been paying my own bills since I move out of my parents house at 20 years old. Before that I payed rent at home.
Well, if we are living together we will split the bill. I will be paying my half and he will be paying his. I would not expect him to pay my share and he should not expect me to pay for his.
I'll pay but it depends on the reason. As long as he's not a slacker, then I'll help him as much as I possibly can since I also have to take care of my little brothers :) We are supposed to be a team after all.
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