Lately, I feel like I'm carrying the entire load.
1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Your boyfriend has money he just doesn't take it out of his pocket because he knows that you're going to flip the bill and that's just kind of sad it's a manipulation and you really have to pay attention to that because if that's what he's doing for real you really don't want a long-term relationship with him it's sad if he's doing that though to you
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- 14 d
Ah, so you are the guy? What you don't like being the guy?
Guy's are expected to have money and pay for everything even though most women work. Being a man it is their "ROLE"?
If that is his ROLE, what is the woman's?
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He probably earns less than you, or he's stingy, or he's used to you always paying. If you want to change that, talk to him and say that in the future you should always pay separately or take turns.
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- 14 d
you enable a shitty behaviour... then wonder why there's a shitty behaviour?
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- 9 d
I have the opposite problem and she works but spends all of it, I don’t know how you ended up with a guy that has no money, no woman would date a guy like that, he probably is just taking advantage of you because he knows you have money and will pay for him
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because you agreed to this?
if you didn't, then stop paying...20 Reply - Anonymous(45 Plus)13 d
Because you allow it. Don't get me wrong. If you stopped you might lose him, I don't know your relationship well enough. But believe it or not we teach people how to treat us. And that begins with KNOWING our value and not allowing someone to dictate that. It's ALWAYS better to be single than be with someone who doesn't value you.
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That sucks. You need to talk to him about that.
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And break up with him if he still insists on making you pay for everything
- 9 d
Because you are a sucker? Ask yourself why you are putting up with that. Nothing like being without to light a fire under someone butt.
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Sounds like he's a male prospector aka a male gold digger
Lady, that sounds like it's the need of a therapist or financial adviser. Take care
00 Reply 335 opinions shared on Dating topic. probably because he knows you'll end up paying for everything.
00 Reply5.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. That means he is not serious about his career, his job and having financial stability for himself.
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don't worry. he will put a load in you and you will carry everything!
00 Reply 7.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Does he have a job? Is he a compulsive gambler? Does he have a secret family?
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See? This is why i don't date as a guy with no money. Sooner or later the girlfriend will start yapping about just that. I spare myself this entire headache in advance and simply don't date.
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well does he not have a job or where is his money going? ask him. we can't know.
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Because he’s a moocher and he knows you won’t say no. Get rid of that bum!
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do you still have to give him head
00 Reply - Anonymous(18-24)14 d
How would we know why he has no money?
00 Reply 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Don't date bums
00 Reply5.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. He doesn't make enough or wastes it obviously
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He's a deadbeat go find someone with a real job.
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Why are you enabling him?
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"Equality", you fought for this.
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You ask him why.
00 Reply 18.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Is he working
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