I pay for every date, every meal, etc. I pay for both of us.
We're in the same boat financially (moderately well off college students.)
I asked him if we could pay for our own portions or maybe take turns paying and he gave me some shit about feminism. He still refuses to help out. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Your such a gentlewoman. Omg, see you're showing that you really care. You're a "real" woman that knows how to treat a man. Well girls usually pay. Ask him to split the bill. He probably wouldn't mind, but you probably wouldn't be getting a second date.
Think about your situation and read the bullsh*t i just typed. Understand it, and remember it for future reference.6
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Most Helpful Girl
He clearly doesn't care about you hun. If he cared, he would have treated you differently, in a special way. He would take care of your needs. I dont say guts should pay all. But a true gentleman at least tries to impress his girlfriend. He wouldn't give u bs about feminism or care about such a subject. This guy is using you/playing you. If I were you I would dump him immediately. Show some selfrespect. You deserve way better than this selfish, greedy prick. I hope you take my advice.0