It doesn't mean that he loves you less. It means that he only did that with them because they made him feel like her had to.
You're looking at this in a quite sexist, entitled way, whether or not you realise it. Two situations:
- One partner expects the other partner to pay 100% for everything
- One partner expects the other to pay 50%
Even though you say you're fine with that, you're complaining about being expected to pay your share. Imagine being expected to pay 100%? Isn't that something that would be much more annoying and much more justifiable to complain about? Surely it must be.
He probably loves you more because you're not trying to leech from him. It makes a huge difference in a man's eyes when a woman is willing to meet him halfway than when she expects 100% from him without giving him something back. But the funny thing is that many women, like yourself, see this as him treating her less well.
Relationships should be 50/50. Before, when we had no children, me and my girlfriend kept everything 50/50. I'd pay for one date, she'd pay for the next. Now I work, she stays home with the kids, and I pay for everything. That's fine because she looks after the children, cooks, cleans, and I provide. That's reciprocal.
If you want the guy to pay for everything you have to give him something in return. Do you cook for him? Do you treat him in any other way? If not, your 50% is paying your way.
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No, but in his previous relationships they didn't offer to pay and he didn't wanna sound like an ass and ask them to pay.
But this doesn't mean he liked paying for everything.
But now you're the first one who offered to pay , and he thinks that's good, so he just agrees to it.
Doesn't mean he doesn't love you less, he might even love you more.
Also if you didn't offer , bet you he would have still paid for everything.
He finally figured out how it actually should be. He was screwed by money hungry bitches and he learned his lesson. It's not about who he loves more.
No, it just means he finals figured out that a relationship is supposed to be 50/50 and not only one giving 100%.
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No it means he's learned how to stand up for himself and not pander to gold diggers.
No. It just means that after his 2nd ex he got smarter.
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