I am not into black women (physically) does it make me racist?

[Miangerry]

Well I'm not into black women but only physically they are not my preference I like them as a person they are fun and good friends and all. So I've got a problem like when I was at the bar yesterday with my friends, one of my friends showed me a black woman and I told him like black women are not my preferences and immediately they all looked at me in shock and blamed me for being racist and I felt myself so so bad. I never had bad intentions. by the way I just moved in US and these guys are my new friends. Sorry for my bad English I am practicing on it.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think Chinese guys are good looking but they basically will not glance at you unless you make 80K and are able to maintain a weight under 130 pounds even when pregnant or old. And Chinese guys have so many options because they are fit and gorgeous, they never stay loyal to a girl unless she acts like her only purpose in life other than to raise her social status. My dad would yell at me for the way I talked, the way I sat, the way I moved my eyes, the way I positioned my feet, my choice of words, my verbal volume, if I did not behave like a fashion model 24/7 I would get screamed at for not being feminine enough. That’s why I do not like Chinese guys.

[WonderBell99]

You are allowed to have preferences

Just because you don't find a specific race of women does not mean that you're a racist. Your friends are in need of a dictionary. Now you know what to gift them as their birthday present! XD

Oxford Dictionary defines the term "racism" as : "prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism by an individual, community, or institution against a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized". Unless you have preconceived notions about them and judge them based on stereotypes or think they are inferior to you, no you are not a racist.

[WonderBell99]

**... you don't find a specific race of women attractive does not mean that.."

[WonderBell99]

does not mean that**

[Miangerry]

Thank you

[WonderBell99]

No problem. Ask you "friends" to stop guilt tripping you. Date who you want to date.

[WonderBell99]

*[your] friends*

[bna85]

But not all black women have the same physical body type or features (especially within and outside of the US).
It is fine to have preferences, but I find preferences based on race questionable because not everyone in a race looks the same or has the same features nor can black women be generalized to look the same physically

[sirderpsalot123]

Not being attracted to black woman doesn't make you racist. The same way a lesbian, not being attracted to men, wouldn't make her sexist against men. You're only racist if you hate someone because they are black. Not wanting to date/sleep with someone, doesn't mean you hate that person.

[sirderpsalot123]

You could also argue that anyone who tries shame you for your preference, an attempt to guilt you into sleeping with them, is a predator.

[Miangerry]

Thank you I think I couldn't express myself better to them because of English.

[sirderpsalot123]

No problem, man. Don't let your brainwashed "friends" have a say in you end up with. Date who you want to date.

[PrettyPriya]

No, that doesn’t make you racist. Hating a particular people or race is what makes a person racist. What you are describing is a preference for a certain type of woman. That isn’t racist at all.

[normalice]

Maybe but when it comes to intimacy that is the one area you are allowed to be whatever ism you want. Racism, sexism, nationalism... whatever. If you aren't physically aroused by a person that's just life.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

For gods sake stop putting the racism sticker on everything. Its completely normal to have preferences.
Am thinking I might be racist because I prefer white chocolate insteat of dark chocolate? No!!

[Berethor]

Maybe but who cares? black women are unpopular, even among black men.

[Anonymous]

No, it just means you have poor taste in women is all. But not everyone has good taste so no worries.

[Miangerry]

Poor or not I do respect all the tastes

[Opinion Owner]

Eh...

[Staximus]

It doesn't make you a racist. Most people date and marry the same race or same nationality. As much as some don't like it, birds of a feather will always flock together.

[In_Trance]

if you're not into them because they're black, yes.

[Miangerry]

I don't hate them I just don't find them attractive its not all about the skin tone for me facial features etc. Other groups catch my eye more and turn me on. Its my preferences what can I do if my meat can't get hard over them

[In_Trance]

whatever works for ya

[CuriousMufuxka]

It simply means you made a choice.

[Anonymous]

No, It in no way makes you racist

[maverick2022]

Nope me neither.

[lofii]

No ut doesn't

[Anonymous]

Yes.