Am I racist if I only date light skin women and not dark skin women?

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jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I would say racial exclusions are racist if they are based on demographics you yourself do not retain a biological position in such as a person who refuses to date members of their own race, they are also racist if you reject ethnic groups based on genetic appearances and not cultural clusters or high density realities within the group, or if your motivated by mental repulsion and not family or collective social pressures when you choose to reject all members of a particular demographic, like if a girl has no problem with other races but avoids them to please her family, I do not view that as racist because she isn’t motivated by ethnocentric hatred or judgment.

Rei13 · Accepted Answer

People have their own preferences whenever it comes to appearance/sexual attraction, doesn’t make it inherently right or wrong

Man-O-Metal · Accepted Answer

Nah man. If you’re literally primarily attracted to light skin women, then that’s your preference. Too many people nowadays think that if you’re not open to dating all races, your r*cist. That’s simply not true. I mean, come on, can you control what you’re attracted to? Or change it by your own will? No! That’s silly! Date whoever you want to date and leave it at that.

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

No! and, anybody that says so is full of shit!! Why is it okay to take a white person without a tan over a white person with one, but it's not okay to take lighter skinned blacks over darker?

ImJustSomeGuyLol · Answer

No, I am black, but I don't think it is. If you were yelling obscenities and being horrible to women just for having darker skin, that is racist.

You're allowed to have a preference, not all women will be in your preference. The same way women have their preferences.

slatyb · Answer

You like what you like. You are racist if you believe that complexion is related to personality. Besides, you never know. Maybe one day you will meet a dark-skinned woman and she will have you laughing and suddenly your feeling changes.

NathanDavis · Answer

racism is more about hatred, ignorance and a complex of superiority, discrimination and few other things... it is not about physical dating preferences

kdarknesss · Answer

No I'm black and I don't date black women. It's just a preference to me black women look like family members and I'm not saying some of them aren't pretty im just not attracted to them. Everyone has their own preferences.

JohnPrestwick · Answer

Only if you consciously refused to date the latter, which is very different to going with what you are attracted to.

HawkPerception · Answer

No that's your preference. It's only racist if you hate coloured people for being coloured.

crmoore · Answer

No. If anything that'd be colorism or whatever but it's not even that. At least not based on the information you've provided. Having preferences like that isn't racist or colorist or whatever.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, you must date women you don't find attractive just so you won't be racist.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

You might be racist by other people's standards... But you should choose things based on your standards not them

Fa1con · Answer

Racism doesn't exist in the bedroom. Find someone who makes you happy and make them happy too.

DiamondsReal · Answer

Weird question, but No your not racist. It's just means you have a thing for light women, that's all😅lmao

MountAverage · Answer

I take it you'd date light skinned "black" women then. Doesn't sound racist to me.

Anonymous · Answer

The truth is that yes, you are racist. Because you should never judge anybody based on skin color alone. Only judge personality and character.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

If you ask any questions about race, you're likely racist

Kaamraj · Answer

Sexual preference is not racism.

KATaylor · Answer

I don't think so at all

zagor · Answer

No, nobody else cares who you date.

Zolly99999 · Answer

No. . it's just a preference..

Anonymous · Answer

Who doesn't love a redbone or bi-racial.

Anonymous · Answer

No that sounds like preference to me

Anonymous · Answer

That doesn't make you a Racist.

Fuentes · Answer

In what world?

Am I racist if I only date light skin women and not dark skin women?

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