Why do people like only bubbly and cute girls?

[akrs_10]

[caring__1]

Though it may be easy to notice bubbly and cute girls, not all guys are drawn to those qualities. I tend to prefer low-key women. I also prefer simple/plain over glamorous. A simple/plain woman can be very cute in my eyes, but not necessarily in the eyes of others. Cuteness is generally something I see in her eyes or smile. Since I like being on the same level as my partner I find bubbly or high energy women drain my reserves.

For every type of person, there are people who appreciate that type. Rather than compare yourself to others and feel you don't measure up, be true to yourself, and you'll attract those who are drawn to your unique qualities.

[akrs_10]

I don't know but all guys choose that pick me the type of girl and I'm always left alone

[caring__1]

A lot of this has to do with where you choose to hang out. If you love to dance but hang around fishermen who only think of the sea, what's the likelihood you'll find what you seek? Don't change yourself to fit into other people's world, find the world that fits you. Rather than only show people what you look like, start showing them yourself in action, so they can see your inner qualities. Check out volunteer opportunities and show you care about more than just yourself.

[akrs_10]

I care but I can't show

[caring__1]

What prevents you from showing you care about others? All it takes is using your talents to add to someone else's life. Most cities have a department that has lists of the type of help non-profits need. Find something you'd enjoy doing and then offer your services. If something prevents you from volunteering, what might that be?

[akrs_10]

I mean by who are my close ones

[caring__1]

I'm sorry, I don't understand what you mean. Please clarify what you are seeking and what you're willing to do to achieve it.

[akrs_10]

I saying people want girls to be always smiling but I'm not like this I have a cold aura that's why no one likes me

[caring__1]

It's not about smiling all the time, but acknowledging the other with a smile. If you never smile, you'll be seen as uninterested, and people will give you your space. If it's important to you, you'll work on being receptive rather than just legitimize patterns by saying that's just what you've always done.

[akrs_10]

Fuck I don't know

[LemonsAsks]

gotta own your style dude. if your shit ain't attracting the turkeys, re-invent yourself. it doesn't have to be cute n bubbly, as long as you look clean and dont smell your good. and a kick ass personality never hurt.

[WonderBell99]

People usually tend to date someone they’re attracted to.

Most people find themselves gravitating toward charisma and cuteness. Bubbly people are usually chatty, easygoing and goofy. They’re easier to be around and carrying on the conversation isn’t a big deal with them. Cute people, well, they’re cute and who does not like to look at attractive people? Staring is weird, but glancing once ain’t.

[akrs_10]

Yeah that's why I'm always left alone

[WonderBell99]

You'll find someone who appreciates you soon enough. Most men prefer simple, genuine women over glammed up ones. Just be yourself, you are still young. Give it time

Don't compare yourself to others. Your life is different from theirs. You don't always need to be bubbly/extroverted to find a genuine guy

[Vendela]

🤔 didn't know that every human in the world felt this way

[HawkPerception]

It's not that people only like cute and bubbly girl. It's that they are more approachable and easy to talk to. I think that goes for anyone. Most people prefer to talk with confident people that make themselves feel comfortable.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because being around postitivity and beauty is the good life.

[In_Trance]

For every kind of girl, there's a guy that's hard as a rock for her

[akrs_10]

But I'm hard as a rock and a girl so I want a soft boy who can understand me

[one1wild00]

They are usually the energetic, outgoing, "fun" ones to be around.

[zagor]

As opposed to what, sullen and ugly girls?

Depression isn't appealing.

[Anonymous]

I don't know.. I can't imagine why guys would want to be around pleasant women as opposed to overly emotional emo women.

[jasco]

Because that's what people are interested in

[User_69]

Don't you think it's normal?

[akrs_10]

Congratulations on being normal

[Beerluvr]

That’s not true at all.

[Intothevoid666]

They don’t

[akrs_10]

Who?

[Intothevoid666]

I found this female police officer with super short hair who looked like a dyke really hot a couple weekends ago.

[akrs_10]

It means except you

[Intothevoid666]

I mean it’s the same with girls, they all like the same guys. They all tend to be attracted to the same thing. But there are def lots of guys with various preferences.

[akrs_10]

what type of same guys?