Not ready for a relationship but next year he will…?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing casually seeing a guy for almost 3 years. He had told me wasn’t ready for relationship. Now he’s saying that next year he will be ready.

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Should I believe him?

[Vikkrram]

Hey it's not like an exam that this time i am not well prepared but next year i would ready to give that. If a man really cares for their loved one then it would be a learning journey for both. I think he is only makin excuses here.

[one1wild00]

If i were you ask him what is holding him back from this year.

[Asker]

He said he’s gonna move out and get a job… supposedly lol

[one1wild00]

If you'd be agreeable to it. Have him move in with you and get the job, finding a place only to move again once married seems like double effort instead of less.

[In_Trance]

So, what are you asking here?

[Asker]

Should I believe him?

[In_Trance]

Not ready for a relationship is guy code for wants to have sex with other women and for you to wait around