We’ve been talking for a month. I have a sudden change of heart when it comes to her physical appearance. ?

[Choimoich]

I’ve been talking to this girl for a month (long distance), I thought she’s the one, I was happy, and she’s very happy.

suddenly, I have started to question her looks. I suddenly don’t find her that attractive. And that caused the excitement to go down.

End things now

Give her a chance

[PrettyPriya]

Looks are not everything. There could be sparks that fly when you meet. Also, remember that you are seeing images she shows you. In real life, things can appear much different.

You do have to be attracted to someone however. I would say give it a chance and meet up.

[Choimoich]

I’m worried that if I’m already unsure of her appearance. Going to visit her is just going to make ending things more difficult

[PrettyPriya]

@choimoich Fair enough. I do agree that it will not make things easier. If you are that unsure, I would then say best to end it. Seeing as how it is long distance anyway, that seems like the right thing if you truly questioning your attraction to her.

[Anonymous]

End it now. You sound shallow like. But you could get to know her better and her appearance later would not matter. Don't chance it though.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks. x

[itsalyssaagain]

That's weird... why are you suddenly not attracted to her?

[Iron_Man]

Well shame on you for leading her on

[Daniela1982]

How was he leading her on? They were no more than pen pals as they had never gotten together.

[Iron_Man]

@Daniela1982 over the Internet that’s where many relationships start and people meat in person

[Daniela1982]

Eventually they do.

[dazzinu69]

It happens

[In_Trance]

So. End it