Good for you for taking initiative! I'm proud of you. He had probably already decided that he wanted to date you; he was just waiting for the right moment. And you gave him that moment.
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Give it a few more months.
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Why don't you ask him? And based on how it's gone in this case, he may not be sure how you feel, so might be why you feel like you're a "backup", because maybe he feels like he is to you? Or, he's not serious in general (depends on the type of guy he is). But I'd talk to him. Just say something like, "we've been dating for a while now, what are you looking for or see this becoming?" And tell him what you'd like. Now a days, often people ask this before or on the first date even, "what are your intentions", so people aren't wasting their time if you aren't looking for the same things.
He probably just thinks if he asks you might second Guess your Relationship with him and you might decide you don't have feelings for him so he is probably afraid to ask, If you really like him and you think he really likes you just ask him if you can be his Girlfriend or if he can be your Boyfriend.
What does that mean to you? Do you mean for him to agree that he won't date others?
Why wait? Knock him to the floor and, while he's down, sit on his face and tell him you won't leave until he tells you you're his girlfriend.
If u feel u want him then don't wait go get this ASS an tell him now no wait I mint right now SOOOOOOO what are u waiting for got get him this ain't 1967 this 20222 go go go go on an do it.
God BlessNever ever wait for a guy ever. If he isn’t going to do something, then simply he won’t.
It takes about 3 years to know that, not a month. Set your expectations back to reality.
Why wait, ask him out.
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