Letting love life go?

[Anonymous]

Is there a way to let my love life go? Noticing my love life is causing me stress then good and I’m content being single indefinitely. I have no plans of putting myself back in the dating world exclusively after everything I went through here recently with a toxic person from my past. It caused me unnecessary stress and pain I didn’t ask to go through. This person played mind games, was leading me on , was toxic , and put me through an emotional roller coaster ride causing me anguish.. I’m still under anguish..

Never dated her , but this hurt me badly.. I’m guarded.. just want to focus on healing and staying away from relationships

[Markie-mark]

Focus on healing, the best advice I can give is improve your life, completelt drop everything about this person, not worth remembering or knowing, I'm sorry you had to go through all that but you're here now

[Asker]

No chance of me dating anymore

[Markie-mark]

I wouldn't advise that.

[Asker]

It’s not your life or decision to make and yes I’m done with my love life indefinitely. I already made up my mind it’s for the best I remain single.

[Asker]

My health can’t allow me to deal with the stress of dating anymore.. nor the bs that comes with it

[Markie-mark]

I didn't say shit about controlling you , I'm saying from what I know of healthy well-rounded people, they don't give up

[Asker]

I’m not those people- I don’t date and haven’t dated - won’t be dating.. I try to keep everything causal when I meet people nowadays

[Markie-mark]

Your health does matter, I'm glad you're prioritizing that at least

[Asker]

Yep away from what’s causing the stress and pain- I notice when I’m single I’m happy.. it’s gonna be that way

[Markie-mark]

I don't know how old you are but I think you're still gonna be here for a few decades so, don't date anyone, don't take any risks, but at least do what you can to move on, let the pain heal and you'll decide the rest from here on, you're not trapped anymore.

[Asker]

I don’t take any risk because I do date - I’m cool with friends , but that’s about it nowadays

[Markie-mark]

Well I'm happy your free at least and now you'll be free from strife.

[Asker]

Yep thanks

[Markie-mark]

You're welcome.

[Mitt15]

Do what you want to do , eat healthy food , go to gym , hangout with your friends.