It shouldn't be like that. Not the same situation but when I was long distance from my boyfriend and was calling him after a party one night, I got so drunk I passed out in the shower mid call and when I woke up he was really mad that I just left him on the phone. I explained I got really sick and passed out on the shower floor and he didn't even care or ask if I was okay.
It shouldn't be like that, and I know it. A partner should never make you feel bad about anything unintentional. If they do they are assholes.
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This would be extra fun to get mad at her is I was her, cause I have my texts set to silence, so I don't get notified. I just 'sense' when someone is trying to reach me with something important.
So if he got mad cause I was a sleep and not in sixth sense mode, I'd laugh... but no, if someone is asleep... why would someone get mad at them for sleeping, makes no sense.
No and that would be a sign of a controlling Arsehole.
if you WhatsApp someone there may be really valid reasons for them not replying even for half a day.
People need to chill more on the entire instant messaging thing, it’s instant for sending only, receiving is still not always instant.
The reply window must be at least 6 hours and at most 2 days.
Expecting an instant reply as if you are talking face to face is just not practical.
I am doing one thing, the person on the other end is doing another thing. The work is higher priority than the texting, obviously.
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This is why people should try to have something called standards and not "hook up" with the first guy or girl who asks what their name is.
Don't know how many people on GAG ask dumbass questions like this because they got involved with some douchebag loser due to their lack of standards.
And to answer your question - no. Drop the deadbeat.no. because she's asleep is nothing to be angry about. If she's sleeping, eating, taking a bath/toilet, driving, school, walking outside, I'm not mad at her for not answering. Because if I were in the same situation, I wouldn't be able to answer either. but she shouldn't lie so as not to answer me!
Why would I get mad if she's sleeping why would I get mad anyway she could be busy doing anything there's no reason to get mad I don't own her she does have a life and things do happen to get ahold of me when she's ready to her when she can
No. Not even. Neither my wife nor I keep our phones in the bedroom when we are sleeping. Cell phones give off EMF radiation that is unhealthy and can interfere with sleep.
Nobody is obligated to be available 24/7.Ofcourse not! Giving and getting some space for yourself is super important for any relationship. Getting angry if your partner is asleep and not texting back is unnecessary drama and toxic if you ask me
HOW DARE SHE FULFILL A BASIC HUMAN NEED. THE NERVE!!!
Because I won't text you in the normal sleeping hours. Falling asleep in unusual times happen and it's normal. But if that (not responding and saying they were asleep) turns to a habit, now that's suspicious.
No... The whole point of texting is to respond when able. If you need instant gratification, make a call.
No. It wouldn't matter what she was doing. Of type boyfriends gets update over this, dump him. He's far too controlling and needy.
No, and she should not get mad if I don't reply immediately if I'm sleeping. Where did this need for an immediate reply to a text come from anyway?
You must have faith and trust in your woman. I don't see my text all that often, and tell somebody tells me that they left me a message. My text messenger is muted because I don't like to be interrupted especially when I'm sleeping.
Well obviously not, she's asleep, how would I expect her to answer a text in her sleep?
Sounds like both need to communicate… these small issues can be resolved.
No. I understand she has a life and all that comes with it beyond what's between us.
Not at all.
Most people have lives outside of their phones.
If it is an emergency I would call or add 911 so she knows it's serious.Heh, if that would piss someone off, they couldn't be in any kind of relationship with me xD
No. It’s ridiculous to think someone (anyone) should have to immediately respond to a text or call. Not so long ago there was no easy access to everyone and everything.
Nope not at all
If anything I'd be sorry I was texting her while she was asleepNope, I would not, it's happened in the past and is not a problem.
Sounds like he’s a very jealous boyfriend with an overactive imagination.
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