It shouldn't be like that. Not the same situation but when I was long distance from my boyfriend and was calling him after a party one night, I got so drunk I passed out in the shower mid call and when I woke up he was really mad that I just left him on the phone. I explained I got really sick and passed out on the shower floor and he didn't even care or ask if I was okay.
It shouldn't be like that, and I know it. A partner should never make you feel bad about anything unintentional. If they do they are assholes.00 Reply
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+1 yThis would be extra fun to get mad at her is I was her, cause I have my texts set to silence, so I don't get notified. I just 'sense' when someone is trying to reach me with something important.
So if he got mad cause I was a sleep and not in sixth sense mode, I'd laugh... but no, if someone is asleep... why would someone get mad at them for sleeping, makes no sense.00 Reply
+1 yNo and that would be a sign of a controlling Arsehole.
if you WhatsApp someone there may be really valid reasons for them not replying even for half a day.
People need to chill more on the entire instant messaging thing, it’s instant for sending only, receiving is still not always instant.00 Reply
+1 yThe reply window must be at least 6 hours and at most 2 days.
Expecting an instant reply as if you are talking face to face is just not practical.
I am doing one thing, the person on the other end is doing another thing. The work is higher priority than the texting, obviously.01 Reply- +1 y
To strictly answer your question. A big NO.
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+1 yThis is why people should try to have something called standards and not "hook up" with the first guy or girl who asks what their name is.
Don't know how many people on GAG ask dumbass questions like this because they got involved with some douchebag loser due to their lack of standards.
And to answer your question - no. Drop the deadbeat.00 Replyno. because she's asleep is nothing to be angry about. If she's sleeping, eating, taking a bath/toilet, driving, school, walking outside, I'm not mad at her for not answering. Because if I were in the same situation, I wouldn't be able to answer either. but she shouldn't lie so as not to answer me!
00 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Why would I get mad if she's sleeping why would I get mad anyway she could be busy doing anything there's no reason to get mad I don't own her she does have a life and things do happen to get ahold of me when she's ready to her when she can
00 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. No. Not even. Neither my wife nor I keep our phones in the bedroom when we are sleeping. Cell phones give off EMF radiation that is unhealthy and can interfere with sleep.
Nobody is obligated to be available 24/7.00 Reply626 opinions shared on Dating topic. Ofcourse not! Giving and getting some space for yourself is super important for any relationship. Getting angry if your partner is asleep and not texting back is unnecessary drama and toxic if you ask me
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+1 yHOW DARE SHE FULFILL A BASIC HUMAN NEED. THE NERVE!!!
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+1 yBecause I won't text you in the normal sleeping hours. Falling asleep in unusual times happen and it's normal. But if that (not responding and saying they were asleep) turns to a habit, now that's suspicious.
00 Reply 976 opinions shared on Dating topic. No... The whole point of texting is to respond when able. If you need instant gratification, make a call.
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+1 yYou must have faith and trust in your woman. I don't see my text all that often, and tell somebody tells me that they left me a message. My text messenger is muted because I don't like to be interrupted especially when I'm sleeping.
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+1 yNo, and she should not get mad if I don't reply immediately if I'm sleeping. Where did this need for an immediate reply to a text come from anyway?
00 Reply 13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. No. It wouldn't matter what she was doing. Of type boyfriends gets update over this, dump him. He's far too controlling and needy.
00 Reply447 opinions shared on Dating topic. Well obviously not, she's asleep, how would I expect her to answer a text in her sleep?
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+1 ySounds like both need to communicate… these small issues can be resolved.
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+1 yNo. I understand she has a life and all that comes with it beyond what's between us.
00 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not at all.
Most people have lives outside of their phones.
If it is an emergency I would call or add 911 so she knows it's serious.00 Reply- 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yHeh, if that would piss someone off, they couldn't be in any kind of relationship with me xD
00 Reply No. It’s ridiculous to think someone (anyone) should have to immediately respond to a text or call. Not so long ago there was no easy access to everyone and everything.
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+1 yNope not at all
If anything I'd be sorry I was texting her while she was asleep00 Reply- 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yDepends, I have had women who would not answer for whatever reason and sleep odd hours, I want get mad I leave that for dogs. I have been upset on few ocassions
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+1 yNope, I would not, it's happened in the past and is not a problem.
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+1 ySounds like he’s a very jealous boyfriend with an overactive imagination.
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+1 yNo that’s not normal lol. I always fall asleep when I text guys no one gets mad.
00 Reply3K opinions shared on Dating topic. No, if you're sleepy then you can't help going to sleep now can you? And I don't want to take all of her time anyway.
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+1 yNo. But if she slept while we were texring and I would be. Like if you are sleepy, then sleep instead of texting
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+1 yObviously no. Except if it was some important thing she promised to respond to.
00 Reply 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. No it wouldn't bother me. Possibly they do like me & turn their phone off when they go to bed.
00 Reply19.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends on our relationship and how much we communicate
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+1 yno these things happen. if it was a chronic thing i would question the relationship
00 Reply No of course not I get mad when they tell me to hang out but always cancel
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+1 yDoes "asleep" really mean Chad was balls deep in her?
00 Reply No, she would have been asleep. How could I be upset at her?
10 ReplyIf the matter is that serious to discuss i would probably call her rather than texting. Or else who cares.
00 ReplyHow is she gonna reply asleep? Then you’re gonna say she was lying about sleeping in first place lol tf
00 Replysometimes people can not get right back to you, have patience
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+1 ylmao no my girlfriend is always asleep and i love her anyway
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+1 yNo, you shouldn`t get mad at her. If she is asleep she doesn`t need to respond to you.
00 Reply10.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope how can she respond when she is asleep
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+1 yOnly if I was a controlling psychopath
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+1 yNo that would be petty
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+1 yOmg I hope not. But if it was important…. call.
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+1 yNope... I dont see any fault for being mad
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+1 yOnly if I knew was blowing me off.
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+1 yNo that's ridiculous.
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+1 yNah. If I knew she was sleeping
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+1 yNo, people get tired and need sleep.
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+1 yNo. She can respond later of course
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+1 yNo how much sense would that make
00 Reply No, I would simply wait for when she can reply.
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+1 yIf you do your an ahole and she should block you
00 ReplyNot mad just sad
00 Reply3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. No, she's asleep
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+1 yNope
00 Reply NO..
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+1 yNo i wouldn't.
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+1 ynope
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+1 yNope.
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+1 yYeah
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+1 yNo not at all
00 Reply 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not at all
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+1 yRelatable
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