I don't understand. Am I abnormal?

[noothıngg]

Hi, I ask myself that question a lot because I'm not normally welcomed by society. I've never had a boyfriend, I've never even flirted. Everyone's pressuring me about it, but it's my choice. Am I really abnormal?

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Yes, you're right, Thank you so much for your response

[wheist9095]

No that's not abnormal, everybody does things in their own time and sometimes that time never comes. It could be not meeting any people that interest you, or not meeting enough people. At the end of the day you might end up aromantic or asexual.

[noothıngg]

Yes, you're right Maybe I'm asexual thank you for your response

[wheist9095]

No problem, but don't jump head first into a new label. Take a little time, read up about it maybe watch some interviews with people who found out that they were to try and better inform yourself so you can determine it to the best of your ability. My favorite asexual icons are red and blue from OSP on YouTube, asexual man and an asexual woman who have talked about their journey on their channel, as well as a good old-fashioned Artemis lore from Greek mythology, or Pygmalion for an aesthetic asexual

[noothıngg]

yes, I think it might be too soon to tell I'll do what you say and try to understand myself.

[wheist9095]

Okay, good luck and feel free to message me if you ever need to talk about it

[noothıngg]

Oh thank you so much, you're really nice to me. I hope every day of your life is perfect, and I hope you'll find good people like you.

[2021biguy]

You're not abnormal, it's a tough world. You're still young so don't worry. You can choose what you want in life, it's no one else's business.

[noothıngg]

Thank you for your support. Your words felt so good thank you very much 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[2021biguy]

You're welcome and don't worry, everything will be ok.

[noothıngg]

🙏🏻🌸💎

[ShadowMonarch]

That's not abnormal at all...
It's your life and you are the one living it so you'll be the calling the shots
People only talk

[noothıngg]

You're so right thank you so much for your answer, it made me feel really good

[ShadowMonarch]

I am thankful that I was able to help

[noothıngg]

🙏🏻🌸💎

[ShadowMonarch]

Thank you

[noothıngg]

Well, thank you.

[ShadowMonarch]

Then thank you😅