Is something wrong with me or is it normal?

[dway_02]

I did realize that every guy who gives me attention or every guy I find attractive I fall for them so easily and it can be more than 2 at the same time, but at the same time I do forget them very fast and I move on very fast it's like I never liked them but at the same time it's very confusing because it makes you not know when u like them or when you live them and which one is best for you and so on. I have never been into a relationship before, but it just feels weird that I am like that with guys who I find attractive or guys who give me attention. My heart is easy to get and is easy to make me fall for someone, but it's also easy to move on from someone I like or forget them. And I think I have a problem or something because it really confuses me. What should I do? Should I get help or something?

[HelpMe06]

I think what you're experiencing isn't necessarily love. When you love someone you can only think about that one person. You might just be falling for the idea of love, or you might enjoy the attention you're getting from a guy or guys so you think you're falling for them, when in reality your falling for the idea of what they could bring to you. Which is attention, someone to hang out with, someone that makes you feel good about yourself. It's okay to like experiencing dating, have your fun and trust your heart. Because when you meet someone who you do fall for you will definitely know it! Don't overthink or question if you need help, just enjoy life and most importantly put more attention into self love, over pleasing guys.

[Anonymous]

It's normal to have different feelings and attractions toward different people, and it's not uncommon for people to fall for multiple people at once or move on quickly from past crushes. However, if you feel like this is causing confusion or distress for you, it may be helpful to explore these feelings further with a trusted friend or a mental health professional.

Sometimes, when we have a pattern of falling for people easily or moving on quickly, it can be a sign of deeper emotional issues or unresolved past experiences. A therapist or counselor can help you explore these feelings and develop strategies for managing your emotions and building healthier relationships.

Remember that it's okay to take time to figure out your feelings and priorities, and to set boundaries that feel comfortable for you. It's also important to prioritize your own well-being and seek help or support when needed.

[SnowedIn]

I don't think this is abnormal necessarily. I'm not sure what you describe is everyone but you're not weird. You're you. And, no, I don't think you need help. Just be thoughtful. There will come a time when you want to focus on the one person. You'll know when that time comes.