so I was dating this 36 yr old guy nd I'm 29. we only dated for a month. nd he nd I Had a very open communication. we're there was nun to hide between us. so I'm a Bisexual-Poly person and I was open about what I like ddnt like... etc. nd he was too. he said he's down for a poly relationship. so we were looking for a 3rd while we were dating. made a rules when it came to adding our 3rd. then after 2 days of us hanging out with our 3rd. he just ghosted both of us for 3 days. then hits me up saying come get your shyt and then texted me saying I don't have a girlfriend. and his excuse for breaking up with me was im too weird. it's not the 1st time I've been told that. but I'm like everyone is weird. but apparently I've been acting weird since day 1. if that was the case y did u hmu. I don't know if I'm overthinking or just reading too much into this. but is there something wrong with me?
Most of us think that being in an open relationship is weird and when you put weird people together, weird shit happens. Aside from that, none of us know you so we don't know exatly how weird you are. . . aside from being into open relationships.
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Yes, most likely it is of a spiritual nature. You have only focused on your physical life and the seeking of love from humans but have not known how to truly love and accept yourself, or be guided onto a path that is truly peaceful and rewarding. You just need to find Jesus and seek His guidance. Sin attracts demons to us and most either don't believe in them, or laugh thinking it's something in the movies. But they are not.
I just prayed that you would find Jesus, peace and a better path. God bless you.
he simply isn't the only n he lied about being ok with how u r
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well to be honest only you would know that from everything you described you were both open and straight up
so this is a hard question to answer let me ask you this so was the third member you were going to add was it male or femaleHe probably wasn't as ok as he said he was with polyamory. Or you did something that you don't know that ticked him off. Either way he's just as weird for agreeing to things he weren't ok with and then not even able to handle the break up more mature than that.
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