Is there something wrong with being private?

B_nash
Is there something wrong with being private?
I live a very sheltered life because I’m comfortable this way. I been through abuse and trauma so much to even not standing up to bullies. I decided to let go of toxic family, relationships, and keep the decision to not make any friends. I went through situations where people take things from me and turn it around on me making me seem jealous. I’m happier by myself in life. I’m a introvert and wanna move through life without being pushed into different areas to make others happy. I don’t dwell on the past but I don’t want any problems. I have dealt with people expecting me to prove my life to them. Ex friends would ask me “send me a picture of your boyfriend”. They would flood my phone with pictures of their boyfriends/husbands. I am camera shy and not a social media person at all. I don’t feel comfortable living my life to prove to others that it exist at all. Ex friends would quiz me on my love life or my life period. I’m basically a loner and not a person that uses social media. I just wanna live my life without having to prove to people this is my life. People have this theory about me that I have to prove my life to them via social media, or video chat or I’m not real. I have been called fake by people because I choose to remain sheltered. People seen me in person and wanted to become my friend after seeing me. This was after they called me fake on social media. I let go a guy who caused me drama. I let go of everything because I’m not proving anything to anybody. This is my life and if I don’t wanna document my life so be it. I had people stealing my photos cat fishing people with it. I don’t put anything realistic on my Facebook. I basically lived my life as a ghost. I don’t want the attention and I don’t want to be found. I’m not tagged in photos on social media. I’m just very private.
Is there something wrong with being private?
Is there something wrong with being private?
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