On the other hand, there are plenty of good guys that are actually willing to get to know me & take me out, and are actually caring, but I'm just not usually to attracted to the guys that have treated me well. sometimes I find that they come across as simps, which is a major turn off.
So what am I supposed to do? cause if I date a cool guy, I'll be happy to be with someone who I find attractive physically & emotionally too, but I'll be unhappy if he sleeps with other girls & cheats & parties all the time, which is expected & common behaviour of a guy like that.
Whereas with a nice guy, they'll treat me well & keep me happy mentally, but deep down I will be unhappy knowing I'm not that attracted to them & that I'll always be wishing I was with a 'cool' guy. So either way, it seems I won't be satisfied & there will always be a lack of something. How am I supposed to ever find an appropriate partner if I can't get someone that can at least fulfil some basic traits? I'm not asking for perfection.
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