I’ve been going on some great dates lately, for me I usually don’t know if I like someone until we kiss, but I’m usually reserved because I was in a field that required a lot of compartmentalising so that part of myself unless I feel comfortable is closed off. I’ve been going on these dates and felt we were flirty, and thanked them for the meal after with a text, both messaged me afterwards saying they thought I was amazing and so fascinating, but that they just didn’t feel it. I never have had this problem before and just started dating after getting back from a huge trip after a breakup, I have a lot of change going on including figuring out where I want to be, but even before I would have people try to kiss me, I even went out with someone in the medical field and it was a 50 minute date he asked to see me again, but no kiss. Are these people looking for like soul mates, or is it that all of the common themes is that they aren’t attracted to me. I’ve never dealt with this before, and I thought back to the dates I was kind, considerate, a good listener, funny and witty, and didn’t talk about myself in excess. Is it me and my looks? I know this may seem like a vain question, and I don’t know if I’m wrong. I live in LA, but I’m just wondering what’s going on here. Any thoughts are helpful.
? Can guys not want to be physically romantic while being attracted to you? I’ve been on 2 dates and both said they “didn’t feel it” is it me?
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