Girls, when guys are just physically attracted to you and emotionally unavailable, does it means something is wrong with you?

[Anonymous]

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When they are only sexually attracted to you. Doesnot initiate a more serious approach towards you and just talk sexual, although you avoid them and their sexual talk.

[nana_90]

Hun, its not you the problem, it is HIM!
Just not the right pair for you and u got nothing wrong , u got two options here :
1/ you too keep it physical only dont get emotionally involved until he feels it too..
2/ if #1 is not possible; avoid him and dont maintain contact for ur own sake.

[Asker]

I feel like there is something wrong with me, it hurts a lot

[Anonymous]

Yeah. It means you have no clue what a quality man is. Which is why you're drawn to the emotionally unavailable ones. Or it's possible that you're actually the emotionally unavailable one and you just expect too much out of men (this is pretty common among women. Many want to get but make a litany of excuses not to give).

[Cex18]

Lust is mainly sexual or physical, with no desire to bond with the person on a deeper level. Love, in contrast, involves feelings of intimacy, vulnerability, and putting in the effort to build a stronger connection.

If he/she lust = Red flag

If he/she loves = its upto you

[Pinay_ako]

No, something’s wrong with him. Be thankful he was straightforward. Next!

[Asker]

Thats good thing that he shows his true colours in the begining.

[Pinay_ako]

Amen sister

[jst4fun]

Could you mainly be attracted to him because he presents to you a challenge? Not everyone has the potential of being in to you. The only fault on your back is that you think you can change the way someone feels inside, and you can’t.

[Asker]

But it hurts and makes u feel like someone wants to just use for his physical pleasure.

[jst4fun]

Have you ever gone out with someone you weren’t that into, but maybe they were there and not horrible, but occupying your free time?

[Yolandi]

No worries I am going through the same thing! Except, I am actually him. I’m the one who is not emotionally available and although I really like him a lot and spending time with him…I am just not ready because of other things like not being happy at work, trying to finish school, etc. He may have other priorities he wants to work on so he is happy with himself!

[DextroShade]

It means they see you as recreational use only, probably because you have slut tells like tattoos, piercings, or slutty pictures on social media.

[Asker]

No , it is not like that.

[DextroShade]

Or he could just not be interested in a serious relationship.

[sage2021]

No, it just means he wants someone good looking to use for free sex.

[kakaling]

Understand what he wants, he is being true, trust him, respect him, that he only wants sex.

Understand what you want. If this is not what you want, next one.

You don't know if he has STD, massive debt or not.

[leahzrc]

no something is wrong with them. They haven't been taught the right way of romance

[Jazzy54]

Nope. I’m not interested in having just a sexual relationship with a man. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[TacosRAwesome]

No. It just means that you personalities don't match or he wants to get laid.

[Jamie05rhs]

No. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with you. It could just entirely be a "Them" problem.

[KrakenAttackin]

You may be chasing fuck boys, or the guys don't see you as relationship material.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Depends on how much emotion you need out of them.

[Wise4myage]

No, it just means the guys was only after sex.

[mommymommymommy]

What does "emotionally available" mean?

[Minahh]

Something is wrong with them

[Anonymous]

a good time not a long time