Did I say something wrong?

[JKingOff]

I was talking to this girl in China and I think I accidentally pissed her off. I'm very logical minded so I don't always know if what I'm saying is offensive. Is it me, or is it a cultural difference? Or maybe it's just a language barrier? Please see images for details.

[AmandaYVR]

I don't know why she got upset.
But here's some reasons why people would not enjoy what you said:

• "One testicle creates X chromasome and 1 testicle creates y chromosome". If this were true, millions of people would already know it, it would be common knowledge. It sounds like complete hokum. However, even if it was true... who cares? It's irrelevant. Guys will never be able to shoot sperm out of only one side, and choose the sex of their children. So maybe she was annoyed by the lunacy of what you said.
• Or maybe she just really dislikes science/biology.

I think she's right. There's no point discussing choosing the sex of your children. You get what you get. (And let's not go crazy like some countries do and kill off their females cause they didn't land a male. Sheesh.)

[JKingOff]

It's not really about choosing your kids gender as much as it is just preference. I was asking hypothetically.

[AmandaYVR]

I wouldn't want to be in that conversation. Imagined hypotheticals that would never happen, can be annoying to some. Why talk about a choice that doesn't exist? It's a way to get to know someone, and their preferences, but we often in life don't get to choose everything.

Do you like analyzing and imagining 'what if' scenarios? ↗

[tatianamay]

Why would you go all biology prof on her? Lol.

That was totally unnecessary. That conversation is incredibly awkward. But i think she overreacted, but hey, at least she was straightforward? 😬😅

[JKingOff]

Right

[tatianamay]

You should have hid her phone number before posting it on here..

[JKingOff]

I'll keep that in mind for next time.

[tatianamay]

Okay, no probs.

Small tip? Ask her to choose thetopic next time you guys talk. Or play 21 questions

[JKingOff]

That's exactly what I tried doing at the end of that conversation before she went to bed. And she's the one that asked me if I'm the one that chooses the gender of the baby. That's pretty much what started this whole conversation.

[tatianamay]

Honestly, you did not say anything wrong, but she overreacted haha.

Its fine, now you know that she hates scientific stuff

[JKingOff]

Yeah. There goes a good 50% of my topics, lol.

[tatianamay]

Hahah, its okay. Just keep it casual

[nawtee_me]

I noticed that too...

[OnKoing]

Posting the number is a breach dude!

[DonkeyDan]

Oh boy, where do I start? First, why would you even talk so frankly about sperm to a girl you don't know? Second, if you're going to talk about stuff like that at least get your facts straight, X and Y chromosomes are produced in different testicles lol, seriously where did you get that from? I think you can guess by now but this is not true. Sperm with X or Y chromosomes are produced evenly across both testicles, they are however divided onto production cells that produce one or the other.
My final point about this conversation is that you continually kept saying you don't know what you did wrong when you should have just just apologised, dropped it and moved straight on.

[crmoore]

I honestly don't know why she reacted the way she did. My only guess, which I'm not confident in, is she's not a very scientifically/medically interested person, and she thought your comments were boring (as she stated). But her reaction seemed more serious than someone who was simply not interested in a comment. Especially when you weren't even pushing that subject, as she's the one who inquired an elaboration from you.

All in all it was a very odd reaction on her part. I honestly don't know what to think of it.

[JKingOff]

Same, thank you for your input.

[Jfranco12]

Like someone else said maybe she didn’t want to talk about that stuff and she took it as you trying to get sexual. Either way boring topic to talk about overall

[JKingOff]

Fair

[Seinna]

Bruh... you can't just post a full private conversation with a girl AND her phone number online. If she wasn't pissed by what you said, she'd be if she knew you shared her phone number with everyone on GaG. You say you're a logical person but I don't really see that...

[koolbrz]

Exactly my thought. Brain dead guy

[t-8900]

She told you why. You're boring her to death 💀 change subjects

[JKingOff]

Tried that.

[t-8900]

try a less intellectually stimulating conversation more based on like everyday life. Maybe she's going to be a bore for you if you require more mental stimulation. If thats the case I totally relate myself. exactly what is the goal of talking with her? Online buddy? something more?

[JKingOff]

I'll give it a shot, thank you for the advice.

[t-8900]

best wishes!

[Hangry06]

Yes utter biological nonsense

But she probably didn't wanna hear about testicles and sperms

[JKingOff]

Maybe.

[Hangry06]

And please do not go on saying different testicles produce different sperms

Also her number is visible

[JKingOff]

It's a WhatsApp number. What's up numbers are never linked to the direct number.

[Daniela1982]

China? You may as well have chosen a girl in bum fuck Egypt to talk to. At least someone a little closer. You are possibly being cat fished, unless you know for a fact differently.

[JKingOff]

Maybe, but it's not like I'm going to be sending any cash or anything so I'm not that worried about it.

[kqueen]

Why tf do you think sperm works like that? I'm so confused. That's a really outdated old wives tale, but I'd think with access to the internet you'd be able to pretty easily debunk it

[Swordnen]

May be she was not expecting that deep of a convo with you. or may be she is not someone who thinks with logic.;...
One more advice
scar her number out for her safety

[okeydoke]

Do you know this person in real life? That conversation was awkward as hell.
Also, your testicle hypothesis is not based in scientific fact. I have no idea where you picked that up.

[JKingOff]

Yeah I just looked it up. I can't remember where I read or heard about it originally. From what I found reading about the subject apparently there are differences in sperm that carry the different chromosomes but they're very subtle, and not divided by testicle. I don't know. These are all just things that I read or heard from other people.

[JamesRandiDebates]

One testicle creates X chromasome and 1 testicle creates y chromosome? That's ridiculous

[Sarahr123]

Loool you just posted her number on here

[Aurora1010]

Exactly, when she starts getting new messages from this place then she really might get mad now